"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rich Men can they be AFC's?

kk2004

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This is what Paris Hilton Fiance said

"The magazine quoted Latsis as calling Hilton "the most beautiful woman I've ever met. I feel like the luckiest man in the world." " (yahoo atricle)

WTF, afc alert, why is he lucky, she should be lucky to have him. IS this a trend with most rich men. I alwasy had the idea that this world was full of DJ's especially those who where rich.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Oh no, quite the opposite actually. I've had serveal General Managers, CFOs & CEOs that I've worked for over the last 12 years, all of whom were multi-millionaires and in busniess respects they we're successes, but every one was a complete AFC and let women walk all over them in their personal lives. Each had a string of illegitimate children and divorces or were placating to women that use them as 'success objects.' In every instance they bought the AFC lifestyle, but were unwilling to hear anything different in this regard since they all percieved their business success earned them respect in this realm as well.

The man I work for at this moment is 64 y.o. and a millionaire several times over, but constantly drops these AFC lines about how "men will never understand women" when he discusses his personal life.
 

spider_007

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frst of all, anybody who is from hollywood, or sorounding area, is very likeley to be emotinaly out of place.

The reason I say that; Most peple there are actors, actors wanabe, musicions, models, artists......... and it is wery imotionaly straining for them. They have to pretend their whole lives. They have to project a certan persona and quality of life. It's the way they make a living. If you think the media is f-up, then you need to realize peple who make the thing are f-up too. One of the reasons why every actor has been divorced 2-3 times....Arnold is one of the exceptions...

As for rich peple in general, I'd say it's oposite. If the have money they think they are THE SH1T.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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