"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rich guys and no gf at 27 or older come on

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lol readin some of the members posts the wealth successful ones woow i wonder. i mean if u have money and a great job i really think any women would want u. well that what my mom said, ah don;t care about gurls right now just focus on ur studies , get a great job and loads of money and any girl would want u. not sure if its a cultural thing -we are chinese.
but i think since the guy and gal go out the guy pays mostly right and if he can spoil her she would like him even more, don;t tell me nice dinners, nice clothes,.... nice things women or even ppl don;'t like come on.
the guys who got money and great jobs are just plain social indept and got no game. come on bmw drving around no gal going go crazy come on and on top of it ur handsome too. man it just a bunch a crap
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by joe45
lol readin some of the members posts the wealth successful ones woow i wonder. i mean if u have money and a great job i really think any women would want u. well that what my mom said, ah don;t care about gurls right now just focus on ur studies , get a great job and loads of money and any girl would want u. not sure if its a cultural thing -we are chinese.
but i think since the guy and gal go out the guy pays mostly right and if he can spoil her she would like him even more, don;t tell me nice dinners, nice clothes,.... nice things women or even ppl don;'t like come on.
the guys who got money and great jobs are just plain social indept and got no game. come on bmw drving around no gal going go crazy come on and on top of it ur handsome too. man it just a bunch a crap
What on earth are you trying to say here? You sound like the socially "inept" (not indept) one.
 

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just sayin with the posts i read from other members who describe themselves as rich, well paying jobs and successful and at the same time havin problems finding a gf or date to me is a load of crap.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
i mean if u have money and a great job i really think any women would want u. well thats what my mom said,... don;t care about gurls right now just focus on ur studies , get a great job and loads of money and any girl would want u.
While I generally wouldn't say "You should really listen to your momma", you seriously do need to focus on your studies if you're 24 and still lacking so seriously in the English department that you can't even express yourself in a manner others can comprehend. I can only imagine how you must come across to girls.
no gal going go crazy come on and on top of it
Right. What he said.

:rolleyes:

Oh, and as a rebuttal to your chain of logic: You're absolutely right. These wealthy, successful guys you speak of have nothing better to do than come onto an internet forum and lie to us about how they aren't doing as well with the opposite sex as they would like to. I'm sure that makes sense somehow.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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