"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rich guys and no gf at 27 or older come on

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lol readin some of the members posts the wealth successful ones woow i wonder. i mean if u have money and a great job i really think any women would want u. well that what my mom said, ah don;t care about gurls right now just focus on ur studies , get a great job and loads of money and any girl would want u. not sure if its a cultural thing -we are chinese.
but i think since the guy and gal go out the guy pays mostly right and if he can spoil her she would like him even more, don;t tell me nice dinners, nice clothes,.... nice things women or even ppl don;'t like come on.
the guys who got money and great jobs are just plain social indept and got no game. come on bmw drving around no gal going go crazy come on and on top of it ur handsome too. man it just a bunch a crap
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by joe45
lol readin some of the members posts the wealth successful ones woow i wonder. i mean if u have money and a great job i really think any women would want u. well that what my mom said, ah don;t care about gurls right now just focus on ur studies , get a great job and loads of money and any girl would want u. not sure if its a cultural thing -we are chinese.
but i think since the guy and gal go out the guy pays mostly right and if he can spoil her she would like him even more, don;t tell me nice dinners, nice clothes,.... nice things women or even ppl don;'t like come on.
the guys who got money and great jobs are just plain social indept and got no game. come on bmw drving around no gal going go crazy come on and on top of it ur handsome too. man it just a bunch a crap
What on earth are you trying to say here? You sound like the socially "inept" (not indept) one.
 

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just sayin with the posts i read from other members who describe themselves as rich, well paying jobs and successful and at the same time havin problems finding a gf or date to me is a load of crap.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
i mean if u have money and a great job i really think any women would want u. well thats what my mom said,... don;t care about gurls right now just focus on ur studies , get a great job and loads of money and any girl would want u.
While I generally wouldn't say "You should really listen to your momma", you seriously do need to focus on your studies if you're 24 and still lacking so seriously in the English department that you can't even express yourself in a manner others can comprehend. I can only imagine how you must come across to girls.
no gal going go crazy come on and on top of it
Right. What he said.

:rolleyes:

Oh, and as a rebuttal to your chain of logic: You're absolutely right. These wealthy, successful guys you speak of have nothing better to do than come onto an internet forum and lie to us about how they aren't doing as well with the opposite sex as they would like to. I'm sure that makes sense somehow.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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