"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Recently i have noticed how reverse psychology works, however i have used it negativly and never tried it positivly. This is why i am writing in discusion and not pretending that this is a tip. I just want your veiws or experinces.

I told a girl sometime ago that i will let her give me her number, at which point she starts playing hard to get and tells me its the guys job to win the girl over and that all guys do it.

I told a girl more recently that if she buys me dinner i will give her my number and she throws the same thing back in my face saying "no you buy me dinner and i will give you my number"

Both of these situations where just a bit of fun really and not too serious but i have noticed that when ever I make a flirty comment that makes it out that the girl needs to win me rather then the other way around, or that the girl is fortunate enough to get my number the girl seems to react by trying to do the same back to me.

Do you think there is anyway to use this to our advantage
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Those responses are tests to see if you back down under pressure. Don't let them get you on the defensive, and enjoy the banter. The exact mechanics of the date/relationship/soapy tit-wank are up for discussion. The important thing is maintaining your cool and sticking to your guns.
 
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A test? iv have enough of those at school!
 
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I was once dating this girl who seemed prudish and so Id always call her a bad girl and crap and I thought that work by kinda convincing her she is bad therefore.. ha... anyways she became more of a good girl as I called her a bad one... so I started calling this other chick who liked me a good girl who didnt like to have fun and she did the opposite in effect trying to prove to me that she wasnt and she was down for fun.. good times- try that
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The thing is girls know all about reverse psicology, probably more than you do. That's why you need to be stronger than her with your game
 
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