Reverse c0ckblocker strategy

[Tilex]

Found something really funny today on reddit that seems unheard of.

Topic:
If you see a girl surrounded by her friends at the bar, do you wait until she’s more reachable?

Response:
There's a pecking order within groups of women that is fiercely enforced. Focus your attention on the aesthetically challenged of the group and the women who believe they are above them will throw themselves at you to prove it.


So instead of the fat ugly c0ckblocker of her group preventing you from getting laid with the hot chick, you should seduce the fat ugly c0ckblocker first to make the hot girl so jealous that she'll eventually throw herself at you?

Does this sound realistic to you?

 

[Clockwerk50]

From The 48 Laws of Power, and consequently from the book on which Greene based this idea, On Love (1822).

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The internet (and to a large extent books like Greene's) the ideas you'll hear are the ones that sounds good in theory but are rarely ever tested.

Most people who consume such material (reddit threads, Sosuave posts, Greene's books) use the material as an alternative to actually getting out into the real world to see how things really work.

 

[The Duke]

My wing man and I would always make a plan. One of us would always take one for the team. Throw a little attention to the fat/ugly one so she doesn't feel left out. It pays dividends later in The nite when one of you is trying to seal the deal with the hot girl.

Yes it's a solid tool to use.

 

[Plinco]

I talk to the whole group and then focus my attention to the girl who I want to talk to. Just keep her friends in mind while you do it.

 

[jhonny9546]

On the internet (and to a large extent books like Greene's), the ideas you'll hear are the ones that sound good in theory but are rarely ever tested.

Most people who consume such material (reddit threads, Sosuave posts, Greene's books) use the material as an alternative to actually getting out into the real world to see how things really work.

I've always thought of the game as a fun thing.
And the fact that if I were to show a woman interest by showing interest in her sister or her friend, if that woman actually responded positively to this "game," then she's not a healthy woman.

Every healthy, self-respecting woman wants to be attracted directly, not indirectly.
Let's leave the unhealthy ones to the indirect ones.

In my limited experience, the women you've shown indirect interest in are drama queens and relationship saboteurs.
But if you just want to **** them, then you know the game.

 

[jhonny9546]

From The 48 Laws of Power, and consequently from the book on which Greene based this idea, On Love (1822).

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You want this power dynamic in seduction, not in a relationship

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

And the fact that if I were to show a woman interest by showing interest in her sister or her friend, if that woman actually responded positively to this "game," then she's not a healthy woman.

I would argue that it's not that you are specifically targeting her friend, which will create competition desire in her. That's the kind of the thing that armchair seducers like to pretend is happening.

Rather, if you target her friend, it's just a demonstration that you are a highly social person who is comfortable talking to anybody.

No need to overthink it and imagine deep levels of 4D chess moves.

 

[zekko]

My wing man and I would always make a plan. One of us would always take one for the team. Throw a little attention to the fat/ugly one so she doesn't feel left out. It pays dividends later in The nite when one of you is trying to seal the deal with the hot girl.

I guess that sounds okay, so long as it's not one person who is always "taking one for the team", while the other guy walks away with the hot girl. Unless they like fat girls, I guess. And there are some heavier girls who are sexy, but I'm guessing we're not talking about them.

 

[The Duke]

I guess that sounds okay, so long as it's not one person who is always "taking one for the team", while the other guy walks away with the hot girl. Unless they like fat girls, I guess. And there are some heavier girls who are sexy, but I'm guessing we're not talking about them.

It always worked out good because we had different preferences on what we each thought was hot.

We would also feel them out to judge who they were most interested in and let the chips fall where they did.

 

[zekko]

It always worked out good because we had different preferences on what we each thought was hot.

I was thinking more along the terms of one wing man being chosen by the hot girl more often than the other. As long as there's some balance there it sounds okay.

 

[Jor-El]

There was a thing in the UK a while ago called "pull a pig" the idea was to chat up the ugly/overweight girl,then,when she takes the bait you literally laugh in her face and clear off while saying "in your dreams" or whatever...Bit off topic,but I think this is terrible,and cruel and all shades of awful. A human being should not do that to another human,and those who do deserves all they get. Sorry to hijack the thread.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It always worked out good because we had different preferences on what we each thought was hot.

We would also feel them out to judge who they were most interested in and let the chips fall where they did.

Did this feeling out process involve you asking each of the chicks which one was ok with you touching them?

 

[RangerMIke]

When approaching a group of women (or any group of people) do not go in with the idea that you are going to cut ONE away from the group... you approach the group. Engage with all the women in that group, give each member of the group the same amount of time and attention then see what happens. If you target just one of them, they will circle the wagons.

You first have to be accepted by the group... then let them compete with each other for your attention.

BTW this is the same approach you should use in any group dynamics. If the group will not let you in... well... you never had a chance in the first place.