"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BeLoSH

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Hello boys.

:up:

I hope all is well. I was a keen poster a number of years back, actively browsed the forums etc etc etc. The bible hooked me and the rest is history.


Here's the deal though. I used to be one hell of a PUA up untill i met my first girlfriend, 3 years ago. From there, i've dated someone else for the past year, which is where i'am now.
In a nutshell, things aren't going great, so i'm looking to the future as a possible single guy again.
My game though will be pants, i know it will be. Even just talking to HB's in my workplace and i stumble. I'm a complete shadow of my former self.

Has anyone gone through something similar? Does one suggest i go through the bible again?

Anyways great to be back, i hope your all healthy and well x
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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drtk

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Welcome back .
I'd advice you to read the bible again. The answers to most of your questions are there and you'll refresh your game and yourself :up:
 

Axcell

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Yeah, I would recomend reviewing some basic material to help you get back into the "DJ mode." Most of the material will start coming back to you, and you'll be back to your oldself in no time!

Often, after a long relationship, (and I can say this based on personal experience), you tend to lose your "DJ habits." I know I started to turn a bit AFC after my first LTR, and that's because once you use the knowledge you have learned (making witty remarks, ****y humour, prizing concepts), you get the girl. However, there is a time during the relationship where you must make a transition into a new character, and that new character cannot be used when encountering girls for the first time.
 

Microphone Fiend

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talk to girls until you get back in the groove. it's like riding a bike. you don't forget, you just need to brush up on your skills and it will come naturally again
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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