"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hello boys.

:up:

I hope all is well. I was a keen poster a number of years back, actively browsed the forums etc etc etc. The bible hooked me and the rest is history.


Here's the deal though. I used to be one hell of a PUA up untill i met my first girlfriend, 3 years ago. From there, i've dated someone else for the past year, which is where i'am now.
In a nutshell, things aren't going great, so i'm looking to the future as a possible single guy again.
My game though will be pants, i know it will be. Even just talking to HB's in my workplace and i stumble. I'm a complete shadow of my former self.

Has anyone gone through something similar? Does one suggest i go through the bible again?

Anyways great to be back, i hope your all healthy and well x
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome back .
I'd advice you to read the bible again. The answers to most of your questions are there and you'll refresh your game and yourself :up:
 
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Yeah, I would recomend reviewing some basic material to help you get back into the "DJ mode." Most of the material will start coming back to you, and you'll be back to your oldself in no time!

Often, after a long relationship, (and I can say this based on personal experience), you tend to lose your "DJ habits." I know I started to turn a bit AFC after my first LTR, and that's because once you use the knowledge you have learned (making witty remarks, ****y humour, prizing concepts), you get the girl. However, there is a time during the relationship where you must make a transition into a new character, and that new character cannot be used when encountering girls for the first time.
 
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talk to girls until you get back in the groove. it's like riding a bike. you don't forget, you just need to brush up on your skills and it will come naturally again
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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