"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Restarting gym tomorrow after a 2 months stop...

Who Dares Win

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...and Im sure is gonna be painful, never in my life had such a long break.

How do you suggest me to restart, maybe some light general circuit to wake up muscles back for a couple of weeks or simply train groups separately starting with lower weights and higher reps?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd go a full body circuit if I were you. But that's just me. Nothing too heavy, it is a circuit after all.
 

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Circuit training wouldnt hurt, that way you can start out by getting in shape to train. Other than that, start out light and work on your form. Consider yourself a beginner again.
 

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2 months isnt a big deal dude.
Start with 70% of ur previous 1RM and increase it to 90% over 1-2 weeks.
Add some cardio like sprints or shadow boxing to burn any pot belly which might have appeared.
 

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Thanks guys I will let you know how it goes this evening...given that I'll be able to raise my arms :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I decided to train all muscles but only on a general movement, in particular bench press for chest, leg press for legs, lat machine for back, shoulder press for shoulders, dumbbell curls for biceps and cable for triceps, roman chair for abs and hyperextensions for lower back.

I did about 70% of what I was doing before leaving the gym and till now the only sore muscle is the chest due to the bench press in which I finished the last series (only 6reps) with my own weight.

Guess I'll do the same again next time, after an other week of this awake I'll swith back to a splitted routine.

The good thing is that I already see myself closer to my old self especially shoulders and chest, hopefully in 3-4 weeks I would get my old shape back I feel muscle memory in here.
 

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You will. I left for 1.5 months once and came back. Within 3 cycles of my 4 days a week workout I came and surpassed my old lifts on some exercises.
 
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