"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Restarting gym tomorrow after a 2 months stop...

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...and Im sure is gonna be painful, never in my life had such a long break.

How do you suggest me to restart, maybe some light general circuit to wake up muscles back for a couple of weeks or simply train groups separately starting with lower weights and higher reps?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd go a full body circuit if I were you. But that's just me. Nothing too heavy, it is a circuit after all.
 

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Circuit training wouldnt hurt, that way you can start out by getting in shape to train. Other than that, start out light and work on your form. Consider yourself a beginner again.
 

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2 months isnt a big deal dude.
Start with 70% of ur previous 1RM and increase it to 90% over 1-2 weeks.
Add some cardio like sprints or shadow boxing to burn any pot belly which might have appeared.
 

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Thanks guys I will let you know how it goes this evening...given that I'll be able to raise my arms :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So I decided to train all muscles but only on a general movement, in particular bench press for chest, leg press for legs, lat machine for back, shoulder press for shoulders, dumbbell curls for biceps and cable for triceps, roman chair for abs and hyperextensions for lower back.

I did about 70% of what I was doing before leaving the gym and till now the only sore muscle is the chest due to the bench press in which I finished the last series (only 6reps) with my own weight.

Guess I'll do the same again next time, after an other week of this awake I'll swith back to a splitted routine.

The good thing is that I already see myself closer to my old self especially shoulders and chest, hopefully in 3-4 weeks I would get my old shape back I feel muscle memory in here.
 

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You will. I left for 1.5 months once and came back. Within 3 cycles of my 4 days a week workout I came and surpassed my old lifts on some exercises.
 
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