"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Restarting gym tomorrow after a 2 months stop...

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...and Im sure is gonna be painful, never in my life had such a long break.

How do you suggest me to restart, maybe some light general circuit to wake up muscles back for a couple of weeks or simply train groups separately starting with lower weights and higher reps?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd go a full body circuit if I were you. But that's just me. Nothing too heavy, it is a circuit after all.
 

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Circuit training wouldnt hurt, that way you can start out by getting in shape to train. Other than that, start out light and work on your form. Consider yourself a beginner again.
 

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2 months isnt a big deal dude.
Start with 70% of ur previous 1RM and increase it to 90% over 1-2 weeks.
Add some cardio like sprints or shadow boxing to burn any pot belly which might have appeared.
 

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Thanks guys I will let you know how it goes this evening...given that I'll be able to raise my arms :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I decided to train all muscles but only on a general movement, in particular bench press for chest, leg press for legs, lat machine for back, shoulder press for shoulders, dumbbell curls for biceps and cable for triceps, roman chair for abs and hyperextensions for lower back.

I did about 70% of what I was doing before leaving the gym and till now the only sore muscle is the chest due to the bench press in which I finished the last series (only 6reps) with my own weight.

Guess I'll do the same again next time, after an other week of this awake I'll swith back to a splitted routine.

The good thing is that I already see myself closer to my old self especially shoulders and chest, hopefully in 3-4 weeks I would get my old shape back I feel muscle memory in here.
 

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You will. I left for 1.5 months once and came back. Within 3 cycles of my 4 days a week workout I came and surpassed my old lifts on some exercises.
 
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