Have you ever had a girl you ****ed up with/were not interested in and just started again without anything just start treating her differently and displaying different (real) version of yourself let's say that you did a bad first impression?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Restart with a girl.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
that could work if you don't talk to her for a while and then the next time you do talk to her you're completely different
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I've hit the reset button a few times, after coming off as needy. Works!
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
It doesn't work. At least soon. Eject ,move ahead and become something better than you used to be but never do it to win her but for yourself. If she notice you after a long time of NC etc. game on.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I agree, it takes a whole lot of patience.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I mess up with girls all the time man. The other night I had this girl over at my house and I banged her. Then afterwards I called her a biotch by accident and she was all offended, and then I started telling her about how if she is going to keep making me have to use condoms I am going to have to slow down on the masturbation because it's a bit desensitizing (I still came after about 15 min so probably not a real problem but it just isn't as good). Anyway the story is that I got laid and she was a dead fish, also she told me that she was banging two other guys so I guess she ****ed up too haha. She messaged me a couple days later and told me that she was trying to work things out with her husband, so I went ghost.
devilkingx2
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if she gets amnesia and you somehow become a completely different person in two weeks then yes
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It worked for me 1 or 2 times... actually last night I had a similar experience.
Pretty girl but crazy... didn't see her since May.... she probably took advantage of me (paying the tickets + drinks) but definitely... I found her more calm, more smiling, more receptive to my bad kino (I wasn't 100% confident in the kino due to our ''past experience'').... did she wanted to be kino? For a while maybe but after... but at the end of the night (which took us to 2am)... she saw my place, drove her home, she started kino (caressing) my hands, let me hold her while walking, and texted me how great of a time she had.... (too few girl ever texted me that lol even the one I laid). Don't know where this will go or if its a good idea to puruse (cause she special and clearly wants to be spolied)... but I am in monk style so I'll keep short dates.
Reset works if you are a better man (I am a better man than I was last year, 6 months).... Although I am focusing on my studies and work... being a monk (scarcity does it sometimes)... I got many girls I can go for drinks and I got a clear focus on my career (which allows me to keep my cool and frame).
So yeah if you have the opportunity try it.... I believe it works on 2 conditions 1) You improved 2) She's open and receptive
Pretty girl but crazy... didn't see her since May.... she probably took advantage of me (paying the tickets + drinks) but definitely... I found her more calm, more smiling, more receptive to my bad kino (I wasn't 100% confident in the kino due to our ''past experience'').... did she wanted to be kino? For a while maybe but after... but at the end of the night (which took us to 2am)... she saw my place, drove her home, she started kino (caressing) my hands, let me hold her while walking, and texted me how great of a time she had.... (too few girl ever texted me that lol even the one I laid). Don't know where this will go or if its a good idea to puruse (cause she special and clearly wants to be spolied)... but I am in monk style so I'll keep short dates.
Reset works if you are a better man (I am a better man than I was last year, 6 months).... Although I am focusing on my studies and work... being a monk (scarcity does it sometimes)... I got many girls I can go for drinks and I got a clear focus on my career (which allows me to keep my cool and frame).
So yeah if you have the opportunity try it.... I believe it works on 2 conditions 1) You improved 2) She's open and receptive