Have you ever had a girl you ****ed up with/were not interested in and just started again without anything just start treating her differently and displaying different (real) version of yourself let's say that you did a bad first impression?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Restart with a girl.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
that could work if you don't talk to her for a while and then the next time you do talk to her you're completely different
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I've hit the reset button a few times, after coming off as needy. Works!
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
It doesn't work. At least soon. Eject ,move ahead and become something better than you used to be but never do it to win her but for yourself. If she notice you after a long time of NC etc. game on.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I agree, it takes a whole lot of patience.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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I mess up with girls all the time man. The other night I had this girl over at my house and I banged her. Then afterwards I called her a biotch by accident and she was all offended, and then I started telling her about how if she is going to keep making me have to use condoms I am going to have to slow down on the masturbation because it's a bit desensitizing (I still came after about 15 min so probably not a real problem but it just isn't as good). Anyway the story is that I got laid and she was a dead fish, also she told me that she was banging two other guys so I guess she ****ed up too haha. She messaged me a couple days later and told me that she was trying to work things out with her husband, so I went ghost.
devilkingx2
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if she gets amnesia and you somehow become a completely different person in two weeks then yes
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It worked for me 1 or 2 times... actually last night I had a similar experience.
Pretty girl but crazy... didn't see her since May.... she probably took advantage of me (paying the tickets + drinks) but definitely... I found her more calm, more smiling, more receptive to my bad kino (I wasn't 100% confident in the kino due to our ''past experience'').... did she wanted to be kino? For a while maybe but after... but at the end of the night (which took us to 2am)... she saw my place, drove her home, she started kino (caressing) my hands, let me hold her while walking, and texted me how great of a time she had.... (too few girl ever texted me that lol even the one I laid). Don't know where this will go or if its a good idea to puruse (cause she special and clearly wants to be spolied)... but I am in monk style so I'll keep short dates.
Reset works if you are a better man (I am a better man than I was last year, 6 months).... Although I am focusing on my studies and work... being a monk (scarcity does it sometimes)... I got many girls I can go for drinks and I got a clear focus on my career (which allows me to keep my cool and frame).
So yeah if you have the opportunity try it.... I believe it works on 2 conditions 1) You improved 2) She's open and receptive
Pretty girl but crazy... didn't see her since May.... she probably took advantage of me (paying the tickets + drinks) but definitely... I found her more calm, more smiling, more receptive to my bad kino (I wasn't 100% confident in the kino due to our ''past experience'').... did she wanted to be kino? For a while maybe but after... but at the end of the night (which took us to 2am)... she saw my place, drove her home, she started kino (caressing) my hands, let me hold her while walking, and texted me how great of a time she had.... (too few girl ever texted me that lol even the one I laid). Don't know where this will go or if its a good idea to puruse (cause she special and clearly wants to be spolied)... but I am in monk style so I'll keep short dates.
Reset works if you are a better man (I am a better man than I was last year, 6 months).... Although I am focusing on my studies and work... being a monk (scarcity does it sometimes)... I got many girls I can go for drinks and I got a clear focus on my career (which allows me to keep my cool and frame).
So yeah if you have the opportunity try it.... I believe it works on 2 conditions 1) You improved 2) She's open and receptive