Have you ever had a girl you ****ed up with/were not interested in and just started again without anything just start treating her differently and displaying different (real) version of yourself let's say that you did a bad first impression?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Restart with a girl.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
that could work if you don't talk to her for a while and then the next time you do talk to her you're completely different
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I've hit the reset button a few times, after coming off as needy. Works!
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
It doesn't work. At least soon. Eject ,move ahead and become something better than you used to be but never do it to win her but for yourself. If she notice you after a long time of NC etc. game on.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I agree, it takes a whole lot of patience.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I mess up with girls all the time man. The other night I had this girl over at my house and I banged her. Then afterwards I called her a biotch by accident and she was all offended, and then I started telling her about how if she is going to keep making me have to use condoms I am going to have to slow down on the masturbation because it's a bit desensitizing (I still came after about 15 min so probably not a real problem but it just isn't as good). Anyway the story is that I got laid and she was a dead fish, also she told me that she was banging two other guys so I guess she ****ed up too haha. She messaged me a couple days later and told me that she was trying to work things out with her husband, so I went ghost.
devilkingx2
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if she gets amnesia and you somehow become a completely different person in two weeks then yes
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It worked for me 1 or 2 times... actually last night I had a similar experience.
Pretty girl but crazy... didn't see her since May.... she probably took advantage of me (paying the tickets + drinks) but definitely... I found her more calm, more smiling, more receptive to my bad kino (I wasn't 100% confident in the kino due to our ''past experience'').... did she wanted to be kino? For a while maybe but after... but at the end of the night (which took us to 2am)... she saw my place, drove her home, she started kino (caressing) my hands, let me hold her while walking, and texted me how great of a time she had.... (too few girl ever texted me that lol even the one I laid). Don't know where this will go or if its a good idea to puruse (cause she special and clearly wants to be spolied)... but I am in monk style so I'll keep short dates.
Reset works if you are a better man (I am a better man than I was last year, 6 months).... Although I am focusing on my studies and work... being a monk (scarcity does it sometimes)... I got many girls I can go for drinks and I got a clear focus on my career (which allows me to keep my cool and frame).
So yeah if you have the opportunity try it.... I believe it works on 2 conditions 1) You improved 2) She's open and receptive
Pretty girl but crazy... didn't see her since May.... she probably took advantage of me (paying the tickets + drinks) but definitely... I found her more calm, more smiling, more receptive to my bad kino (I wasn't 100% confident in the kino due to our ''past experience'').... did she wanted to be kino? For a while maybe but after... but at the end of the night (which took us to 2am)... she saw my place, drove her home, she started kino (caressing) my hands, let me hold her while walking, and texted me how great of a time she had.... (too few girl ever texted me that lol even the one I laid). Don't know where this will go or if its a good idea to puruse (cause she special and clearly wants to be spolied)... but I am in monk style so I'll keep short dates.
Reset works if you are a better man (I am a better man than I was last year, 6 months).... Although I am focusing on my studies and work... being a monk (scarcity does it sometimes)... I got many girls I can go for drinks and I got a clear focus on my career (which allows me to keep my cool and frame).
So yeah if you have the opportunity try it.... I believe it works on 2 conditions 1) You improved 2) She's open and receptive