"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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response to the 'i'll let you know' or 'i'll call you when im free'?

drift king

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what should you respond with if a HB you're trying to arrange a meet up with says 'i'll let you know' or 'i'll call you when i'm free' (knowing that she probably won't)?

i'm not talking about the girls who have low interest initially i mean the ones which offer you a time to meet up, somewhat cancel/flake legitimately (you have to give them one chance -sometimes these things happen) then when she flakes says 'she'll let you know' or 'i'll call you when im free' to meet up.

what do you respond with by call/text?

i have been in this scenario many times esp when trying to make arrangements and in turns into a negotiation back and forth of oh im busy then so i counter with im busy when she counter offers then eventually it leads to her sayin 'i'll let you know' or i leave it and never hear from her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My first thought is to respond.

"You know I'm going to be super busy between now and then. I'll call you ???(tomorrow, Friday, next week) and we'll figure it out."

1. You take charge.
2. You have a life.
3. You're suggesting there's a "we". Good start.
 

drift king

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but if she's already said 'i'll let you know'

and you respond with the line you said above when?
 
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