"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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response to the 'i'll let you know' or 'i'll call you when im free'?

drift king

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what should you respond with if a HB you're trying to arrange a meet up with says 'i'll let you know' or 'i'll call you when i'm free' (knowing that she probably won't)?

i'm not talking about the girls who have low interest initially i mean the ones which offer you a time to meet up, somewhat cancel/flake legitimately (you have to give them one chance -sometimes these things happen) then when she flakes says 'she'll let you know' or 'i'll call you when im free' to meet up.

what do you respond with by call/text?

i have been in this scenario many times esp when trying to make arrangements and in turns into a negotiation back and forth of oh im busy then so i counter with im busy when she counter offers then eventually it leads to her sayin 'i'll let you know' or i leave it and never hear from her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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My first thought is to respond.

"You know I'm going to be super busy between now and then. I'll call you ???(tomorrow, Friday, next week) and we'll figure it out."

1. You take charge.
2. You have a life.
3. You're suggesting there's a "we". Good start.
 

drift king

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but if she's already said 'i'll let you know'

and you respond with the line you said above when?
 
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