"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Response to "I like your accent"

SamMalone

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I used to live in the north east and have a wicked bad accent. Now I live in the south and I often have women tell me they "really like my accent". What do I say after this? I would normally say "Thanks", but that seems somewhat ridiculous since it's nothing I really accomplished as was just living in the area.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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"Thanks, I like yours too..."

Guy's, this isn't difficult....
 

Centaurion

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You can never go wrong with, "I know..."

props to Han Solo for that one.
 

L777

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is it true also that americans birds like english accents?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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NE accents are the worst. like that fran drescher accent. blechhh.

i like southern accents on girls damn thats mad sexy.
 

wowiehowie

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Originally posted by Julian
NE accents are the worst. like that fran drescher accent. blechhh.

i like southern accents on girls damn thats mad sexy.
C'mon we're not all like that! Not to spite you, but I really don't care for the lazy "Suthrun" draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwllllllll.
 
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