"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Response to "I like your accent"

SamMalone

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I used to live in the north east and have a wicked bad accent. Now I live in the south and I often have women tell me they "really like my accent". What do I say after this? I would normally say "Thanks", but that seems somewhat ridiculous since it's nothing I really accomplished as was just living in the area.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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"Thanks, I like yours too..."

Guy's, this isn't difficult....
 

Centaurion

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You can never go wrong with, "I know..."

props to Han Solo for that one.
 

L777

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is it true also that americans birds like english accents?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Julian

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NE accents are the worst. like that fran drescher accent. blechhh.

i like southern accents on girls damn thats mad sexy.
 

wowiehowie

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Originally posted by Julian
NE accents are the worst. like that fran drescher accent. blechhh.

i like southern accents on girls damn thats mad sexy.
C'mon we're not all like that! Not to spite you, but I really don't care for the lazy "Suthrun" draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwllllllll.
 
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