"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Response to "I like your accent"

SamMalone

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I used to live in the north east and have a wicked bad accent. Now I live in the south and I often have women tell me they "really like my accent". What do I say after this? I would normally say "Thanks", but that seems somewhat ridiculous since it's nothing I really accomplished as was just living in the area.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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"Thanks, I like yours too..."

Guy's, this isn't difficult....
 

Centaurion

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You can never go wrong with, "I know..."

props to Han Solo for that one.
 

L777

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is it true also that americans birds like english accents?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Julian

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NE accents are the worst. like that fran drescher accent. blechhh.

i like southern accents on girls damn thats mad sexy.
 

wowiehowie

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Originally posted by Julian
NE accents are the worst. like that fran drescher accent. blechhh.

i like southern accents on girls damn thats mad sexy.
C'mon we're not all like that! Not to spite you, but I really don't care for the lazy "Suthrun" draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwllllllll.
 
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