Responding to HBs when arranging meetings.

[pete101]

You must have encountered this problem before.. You get the girls number then you call to set up a meeting, she acts a bit flakey not giving you a straight answer (maybe to not look keen) or just hasn't got as high interest level at the time of speaking.

how do you respond if she finishes with 'i'll let you know..' because really you know she is not going to let you know. what would be a DJ thing to say in response to that?

 

[pete101]

any answers?

 

[DonGorgon]

Yes, we've all encountered this problem before and it isn't a riddle. SHE JUST ISN'T THAT INTO YOU. If the entire phone call is a giant flake fest and she ends it by "I'll let you know", then you say "goodbye", hang up the phone, sit down with pad and pen and create a plan to improve yourself through diet, exercise, goals, work, style, so that in the future it will be YOU who acts flakey with HB10's because you have so many of them to choose from. Get it?

Yeh that is something that women do to us but hate to have it done to them.. they always wanna know all the details of the meeting before hand...

I agree that if they already like you they do it to not seem to eager and to see if you will get angry and show weakness etc.. but if you dont know her yet then it means she thinks she can do better than you...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Just tell her that you can see that she's busy and not to worry, you'll just go with someone else. Notice that you don't say that you're going to ask someone else. Tell her that you'll call her some time and maybe she'll have some free time to do something.