Responding to a chicks indifference

[EBickford]

So I recently decided to see if I could get something going with this chick whom I graduated with(5 years ago). The only means of communication between us is facebook, with which we are friends. I decide to use that " I found something really interesting about you" line, with which she bit to.

When I tried to play a lol hard to get with it( I said I bet you wouldn't believe me if I told you) she acted indifferent. Saying: "if you want to say it, then say it. If not then whatev!"

now this chick is about a 9. Someone who I remember was pretty cool too.

I'm curious as to what would be a good response to something like this.

Thoughts?

 

[EBickford]

I haven't seen her in 5 years, and we weren't good friends. More like if we saw each other, we would say hi. She also wasn't this fine back then either.

Facebook right now is the only way to at the moment. I don't have her number now, and I feel that if I just sent a message asking for her number, I would definitely get a no.

To the point that you didn't understand, this is how the convo went after opening line

Her: oh ya what is that. ( had her curious)
me: ya know, I don't think you would believe me if I told you.
Her. Oh lol, I was just asking, if you want. To say it then say it. If not whatev!

Her response honestly caught me off guard. Idk if she is baitin me into just saying it or if she doesn't care. She doesn't have anything invested in me or the Interaction. But also, if she didn't care, she wouldn't still talk to me.

 

[sodbuster]

You didn't have the hooks in deep enough to try to play hard to get. She REALLY doesn't "shive a git" if you tell her or not. It's hard to flirt like that over FB. Some teasing needs to be in person.

 

[EBickford]

ok, so should i just not say anything about wha that really interesting thing was( lol, it was something lame), and just ask for her digits? i feel like the rapport might not be there, and i am god aweful at building it over messaging.