No, for sure I have NOT made clear that this relationship is purely sexual. She pushes to spend more time with me, but I generally hate talking to girls for extended periods of time (without potential sex upcoming).
I might get flack for this, but I don't care.
She clearly likes you and is wanting to move things on, don't lead her on. You like her too. What's stopping you from dating her? She's probably too inexperienced and doesn't know when to pop the "So what are we question" given her background being a kissless virgin. If you're her first in everything then treat her well, we don't need more damaged chicks out there lol. It sounds like she wants more from you and that's totally cool, but if you just want sex and she doesn't probably best to drop her as plate/fwb. If you've been vetting her, using your redpill and game knowledge alongside that, then I say go for it.
I gotta be honest that I think she’s better than 90% of girls for LTR potential. Mainly because I can freely talk about any topic that interests me with her, no matter how politically incorrect. And she’ll agree with it.
Sounds like chemistry to me.
As of now, I’m just improving myself and not locking down anything. I know this girl might be the best I can get (in America) for an LTR, but I also know that marriage sucks for sex. Like, super sucks. And I don’t want to be stuck in that situation. I just like sending a random text in the morning telling her to meet up, bringing her right back to my room, banging, then leaving almost right after. Then I can do my own ****.
**** you ain't locking anything down my man, you're what early 20s right? You can still date and have relationships,
don't even worry about marriage in the slightest. It shouldn't be on your mind at all. You should be improving and focusing on yourself above all else, having a quality chick by your side should only serve to motivate you and bring you up. If she doesn't then let her go.
You need to date a woman to know how to handle a woman, more than just sexually. Don't think so far into the future, stay present, be objective and be rational. If you like her, want to get closer to her, have good chemistry and think "She's better than 90% of girls for ltr potential" then send it. A lot of guys here are just looking to smash and that's cool too, but many here also seek out quality woman for relationships. Nothing wrong with that and it is also likely she won't be a permanent fixture in your life anyways. Use it as experience to grow.
The main point is that I think she is good material for a LTR, but I also think I’m too young to marry. Like way too young. I’m excited for when my face matures more in my mid to late 20s and I can have much more success.
If you ain't good looking facially in your 20s then the only change that might come is growing a beard to look more mature. Also, I saw you post about the minox beard, careful with that. If you're early 20s and can't grow a beard that isn't weird at all,
I couldn't grow one until 24. With age men get better, but more so with money, status, confidence and their physiques. If you look 'boyish'/young then own that shid, it is an advantage. At 25 most the girls hitting me up are fresh out of high school and early 20s.
I look younger then my age, but have the body of a man and have more confidence then 19 year old boys. I'm also glad I had relationships in my early 20s because I dated sexually unavailable BPD whackos who made me significantly stronger and smarter.
Did I miss out on some poon? Sure. Did I learn a lot? Sure did.
You gotta weigh your options. Do you wanna just smash as much as possible? Then let the 'plate' drop, (she isn't a game player don't mess her up). Do you like this girl enough to consider being exclusive? Remain ****y and funny, but yeah hit her up and say something like
"Yeah I missed you, but I missed your ass more
".
Now, if this was the case of a 'game player' or wholesome pretender I would treat it differently, but it doesn't sound like that. For those... I could care less and agree with Howiestern and get that hamster wheel spinning.
Don't hurt the girl just to get your rocks off. My more than 2 cents of unsolicited advice