“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Responding to “Do you miss me?” over text

CollegeMan22

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I got a girl at college who is my main f-buddy. We’ve been seeing each other the past three months, but I haven’t signed any exclusivity contract (not that I would). I’m away from my college and out of state for winter break, and oftentimes she texts me. She usually initiates things.

Usually I reply with teasing/C&F stuff, but she texted me “Do you miss me?” with a tear face emoji. I don’t think I should deflect this, cause I think that would blow up. What’s the best response?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's your objective? Keep this a f-buddy? Make her a solid gf? That drives your response.

She is feeling you out for your level of commitment.

I'd play it right down the middle like it's a poker game. Keep her on her toes. Make her hamster wheel spin. Does he like me like I like him???? Hmmm she has no clue. Do I need to impress him more to lock him down?
 

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is she the main...or the only?
She’s the only one I’m banging atm. Unlike most all girls I go out with, our values align. She’s Eastern European, based, anti-feminist, never offended, and a kissless virgin (before me) at that. LTR material for sure.

You might doubt the kissless virgin thing, but I could tell by the way she kissed and how embarrassed she was at first in bed that she’s not lying. I’ve taught her everything lol.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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She’s the only one I’m banging atm. Unlike most all girls I go out with, our values align. She’s Eastern European, based, anti-feminist, never offended, and a kissless virgin (before me) at that. LTR material for sure.

You might doubt the kissless virgin thing, but I could tell by the way she kissed and how embarrassed she was at first in bed that she’s not lying. I’ve taught her everything lol.
Do you like her, sounds like it? and has is it been made clear to her that the relationship is purely sexual?
 

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What's your objective? Keep this a f-buddy? Make her a solid gf? That drives your response.

She is feeling you out for your level of commitment.

I'd play it right down the middle like it's a poker game. Keep her on her toes. Make her hamster wheel spin. Does he like me like I like him???? Hmmm she has no clue. Do I need to impress him more to lock him down?
I gotta be honest that I think she’s better than 90% of girls for LTR potential. Mainly because I can freely talk about any topic that interests me with her, no matter how politically incorrect. And she’ll agree with it.

But at the same time, game has gotten me addicted to approaching girls. I can’t NOT approach that cute girl who I see by herself in the gym, on the street, or at a party. And I have this internal desire to push it as far as I can.

As of now, I’m just improving myself and not locking down anything. I know this girl might be the best I can get (in America) for an LTR, but I also know that marriage sucks for sex. Like, super sucks. And I don’t want to be stuck in that situation. I just like sending a random text in the morning telling her to meet up, bringing her right back to my room, banging, then leaving almost right after. Then I can do my own ****.

The main point is that I think she is good material for a LTR, but I also think I’m too young to marry. Like way too young. I’m excited for when my face matures more in my mid to late 20s and I can have much more success.
 

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Do you like her, sounds like it? and has is it been made clear to her that the relationship is purely sexual?
No, for sure I have NOT made clear that this relationship is purely sexual. She pushes to spend more time with me, but I generally hate talking to girls for extended periods of time (without potential sex upcoming). I just tell her to meet up and we meet, talk and kino for a bit, then go back and bang. Then we part ways for the day, with her begging me to stay with her for longer. But I’m pretty good at saying no.
 

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No, for sure I have NOT made clear that this relationship is purely sexual. She pushes to spend more time with me, but I generally hate talking to girls for extended periods of time (without potential sex upcoming).
I might get flack for this, but I don't care.

She clearly likes you and is wanting to move things on, don't lead her on. You like her too. What's stopping you from dating her? She's probably too inexperienced and doesn't know when to pop the "So what are we question" given her background being a kissless virgin. If you're her first in everything then treat her well, we don't need more damaged chicks out there lol. It sounds like she wants more from you and that's totally cool, but if you just want sex and she doesn't probably best to drop her as plate/fwb. If you've been vetting her, using your redpill and game knowledge alongside that, then I say go for it.

I gotta be honest that I think she’s better than 90% of girls for LTR potential. Mainly because I can freely talk about any topic that interests me with her, no matter how politically incorrect. And she’ll agree with it.
Sounds like chemistry to me.

As of now, I’m just improving myself and not locking down anything. I know this girl might be the best I can get (in America) for an LTR, but I also know that marriage sucks for sex. Like, super sucks. And I don’t want to be stuck in that situation. I just like sending a random text in the morning telling her to meet up, bringing her right back to my room, banging, then leaving almost right after. Then I can do my own ****.
**** you ain't locking anything down my man, you're what early 20s right? You can still date and have relationships, don't even worry about marriage in the slightest. It shouldn't be on your mind at all. You should be improving and focusing on yourself above all else, having a quality chick by your side should only serve to motivate you and bring you up. If she doesn't then let her go. You need to date a woman to know how to handle a woman, more than just sexually. Don't think so far into the future, stay present, be objective and be rational. If you like her, want to get closer to her, have good chemistry and think "She's better than 90% of girls for ltr potential" then send it. A lot of guys here are just looking to smash and that's cool too, but many here also seek out quality woman for relationships. Nothing wrong with that and it is also likely she won't be a permanent fixture in your life anyways. Use it as experience to grow.

The main point is that I think she is good material for a LTR, but I also think I’m too young to marry. Like way too young. I’m excited for when my face matures more in my mid to late 20s and I can have much more success.
If you ain't good looking facially in your 20s then the only change that might come is growing a beard to look more mature. Also, I saw you post about the minox beard, careful with that. If you're early 20s and can't grow a beard that isn't weird at all, I couldn't grow one until 24. With age men get better, but more so with money, status, confidence and their physiques. If you look 'boyish'/young then own that shid, it is an advantage. At 25 most the girls hitting me up are fresh out of high school and early 20s. I look younger then my age, but have the body of a man and have more confidence then 19 year old boys. I'm also glad I had relationships in my early 20s because I dated sexually unavailable BPD whackos who made me significantly stronger and smarter. Did I miss out on some poon? Sure. Did I learn a lot? Sure did.

You gotta weigh your options. Do you wanna just smash as much as possible? Then let the 'plate' drop, (she isn't a game player don't mess her up). Do you like this girl enough to consider being exclusive? Remain ****y and funny, but yeah hit her up and say something like

"Yeah I missed you, but I missed your ass more ;) ".

Now, if this was the case of a 'game player' or wholesome pretender I would treat it differently, but it doesn't sound like that. For those... I could care less and agree with Howiestern and get that hamster wheel spinning.

Don't hurt the girl just to get your rocks off. My more than 2 cents of unsolicited advice
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I gotta be honest that I think she’s better than 90% of girls for LTR potential. Mainly because I can freely talk about any topic that interests me with her, no matter how politically incorrect. And she’ll agree with it.

But at the same time, game has gotten me addicted to approaching girls. I can’t NOT approach that cute girl who I see by herself in the gym, on the street, or at a party. And I have this internal desire to push it as far as I can.

As of now, I’m just improving myself and not locking down anything. I know this girl might be the best I can get (in America) for an LTR, but I also know that marriage sucks for sex. Like, super sucks. And I don’t want to be stuck in that situation. I just like sending a random text in the morning telling her to meet up, bringing her right back to my room, banging, then leaving almost right after. Then I can do my own ****.

The main point is that I think she is good material for a LTR, but I also think I’m too young to marry. Like way too young. I’m excited for when my face matures more in my mid to late 20s and I can have much more success.
This is a challenging situation. If she's good for an LTR, then there's some rational for having an LTR with her.

Some people who are good at seducing can't live without seducing. They are "Thrill of the Hunt" guys. Neil Strauss was notorious for being a "Thrill of the Hunt" guy.

If you consider the article below, I am more of a "Pleasure of Sex" man vs. a "Thrill of the Hunt" guy. I have always been that way, even when I was in my early 20s and the same age that @CollegeMan22 is now.


Getting in an LTR now does not mean that you have to marry someone. Marriage does not have to be the end game for an LTR. Neither does cohabitation. A lot of LTRs do fail because the woman pushes for one of those things and the man resists. Conversely, a lot of men in LTRs push the relationship into cohabitation or marriage status and it leads to a decline in the quality of the relationship.
 

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I got a girl at college who is my main f-buddy. We’ve been seeing each other the past three months, but I haven’t signed any exclusivity contract (not that I would). I’m away from my college and out of state for winter break, and oftentimes she texts me. She usually initiates things.

Usually I reply with teasing/C&F stuff, but she texted me “Do you miss me?” with a tear face emoji. I don’t think I should deflect this, cause I think that would blow up. What’s the best response?
"My c0ck and I both do" should cover both the comfort and attraction bases
 

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"My c0ck and I both do" should cover both the comfort and attraction bases
"Yeah I missed you, but I missed your ass more ;) ".
I took Stanley’s advice and replied with what he said. She responded with “Haha I feel the same way”. That’s a good result. I’ll be back to campus in a week and she’s still initiating basically every text, so I’m chilling.
 

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Only read the title of this thread.
I have received this text message
and my response is the same…

I’ll answer your question with
my d/ck in your mouth on your knees.
 

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I tend to joke it off with "That's unclassified piece of information" or some ****, never say yes or no.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Let it go into the abyss, make her follow up say, sorry, missed this
 

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When girls tell me they miss me , if i like them, ill say something like "i miss you too, send me some pics".. i dont really do any interactions that are taht menial unless im gettin something out of it.. if she sends me some sexi pics then i might just hit when she comes back in town or whatever the case may be
 

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I tend to joke it off with "That's unclassified piece of information" or some ****, never say yes or no.
That's right up my alley. My take would be to say, "I'm a let you figure that one out". I rarely admit to feelings for the chicks, they may know its there but I rarely openly admit it -and when I do, its because the girl has more feelings haha
 
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