"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Requesting a ban. Don't want to be surrounded by these inept losers anymore.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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savi0r

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Part of the reason why I made the thread "Exposing myself' was for pure entertainment, other half was i was planning to leave.. Its just hard for me not to come back since I have an OCD personality and this is the only forum to talk about women. It just bothers me that this forum is completely inept/full of incels/desperate weirdos/ old guys past their prime, and beta males. Read my profile posts and you can see how many times i wanted to leave.

Before I get banned, think about this fact:


I am the ONLY guy on this forum who has posted MULTIPLE (I believe 4) diff chicks, in their beds with them, or at their places drinking, or them cooking for me in panties, etc --- NOt 1, not 2, not 3, and not 4. ANd not just some pics you can google or some sht with soem random chick on a bed (no offense LucianoM, you're still the only other guy i think is capable on here).. but pics where the girl is by my side.. despite not showing faces due to respecting privacy/and the rules of this forum. but basiaclly pics u cant find on the net cuz no one takes pics at those angles.


I only stopped because of all the immature comments, envy, jealousy and "you're bragging, why brag, " kinda sht people were saying--despite me never making a whole THREAD To post them, and rather posting them in comments, where sht was relevant.. or i was jus in the spur of the moment

Not only that, my texts i posted, which were only a few-- showed girls begging to hang with me again.. because afterall, im pretty good in bed, despite having relied on viagra for a while. -- Meanwhile the posts you guys , or the "best" of you have posted were pitiful.


So yeah, gonna hang up my jersey and remind you that, Just because i lied and overinflated my wealth, and my physique, and very slightly exaggerated my abundance claiming i was juggling multiple plates that i known for years, its pathetic to discount all the REAL expriences/stories i posted, which alot of was personal sht about my upbringing and real sht about me getting fired frfmo my last job for being involved with multipl chicks or real life dating experiences ive had.

Afterall, i didnt just date 5-6 women like the average guy .. I've dated over 20 women.. and only had sexual relationships with 5-6 of them.. reg

To me, I think being on a forum like this just means you're one of the losers who aint really enjoying abundance. This forum has never resonated with me in all honesty, I just came here to toot my own horn and give advice because I Do enjoy helping others.

To those of you who still respect my advice and opinions, you know where to reach me. If not, just hit my DM and if u were ever cool and respectful, I'd still get on a call with you anytime so you can see im really still that dude. I couldn't imagine a SINGLE person on here being cooler or more experienced with woman than I am.. and I truly truly believe that.
To the rest, Enjoy being surrounded by Beta males , old farts and incels thinking that its going to get you somewhere with women.
Yep. You're all I wanted to be while growing up...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You know, if you want to request moderator action you should probably direct it to the moderators and not the public board. In any case I won't ban you.

If you really want to quit and struggle to overcome your compulsion to return, here's a guide to lock yourself out of the account:
  1. Find a temporary email service.
  2. Change your account email to that temporary email.
  3. Verify the change through the temporary email.
  4. Change your password, just mash your keyboard for randomness.
  5. Close the temporary random email and save nothing.
  6. Log out of SoSuave.
  7. Congrats, you're now completely unable to log back in or recover your account.
I'm also moving this thread to Anything Else, it has nothing to do with the main topic of Don Juan Discussion.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What the losers and incels (98% of this forum) don't realize is this: This is an alpha male who is actually successful with women holding a mirror to you all showing you are a bunch a losers, weirdos and socially inept foreveraloners.

The fact that no one understands this.. and why this forum doesn't have "ideal" or "capable" dudes .. and why the only other cool dudes on here like LucianoM rarely post, --is because no one wants to hang out with a buncha losers.

I coulda kept overinflating my sense of success and wathc as a buncha you dweebs DM me and ask to go on video calls and phone calls with me.. while the real losers and unwilling to change pout in envy and sexual frustration...

If you are on SOSuave, you are accepting that you are one of the losers.
Why do you think my position on here was always ME differentiating myself from you you all, as I talked down to you idiots like the beta cucks you are.

Whydo you think I called out cucks like Pedrito who now goes by "All Kind of gAinz" and other betas on here?


The sad reality is, for alot ofyou, it still not starting to make sense-- and thats the issue.. You guys dont realize you're in a corner of your own, where all the ostracized, women hating, nervous around women losers are.. while they share their baseless opinions to feel a tiny bit good about themselves
 

BillyPilgrim

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What the losers and incels (98% of this forum) don't realize is this: This is an alpha male who is actually successful with women holding a mirror to you all showing you are a bunch a losers, weirdos and socially inept foreveraloners.

The fact that no one understands this.. and why this forum doesn't have "ideal" or "capable" dudes .. and why the only other cool dudes on here like LucianoM rarely post, --is because no one wants to hang out with a buncha losers.

I coulda kept overinflating my sense of success and wathc as a buncha you dweebs DM me and ask to go on video calls and phone calls with me.. while the real losers and unwilling to change pout in envy and sexual frustration...

If you are on SOSuave, you are accepting that you are one of the losers.
Why do you think my position on here was always ME differentiating myself from you you all, as I talked down to you idiots like the beta cucks you are.

Whydo you think I called out cucks like Pedrito who now goes by "All Kind of gAinz" and other betas on here?


The sad reality is, for alot ofyou, it still not starting to make sense-- and thats the issue.. You guys dont realize you're in a corner of your own, where all the ostracized, women hating, nervous around women losers are.. while they share their baseless opinions to feel a tiny bit good about themselves
I had to minimize my screen to be able to read this.
 

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I had to minimize my screen to be able to read this.
lol thefont size helps with emphasis

dont worry i made a new thread to emphasize the emphasis on the emphasizing of the points im trying to make
 

Bigpapa

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lol thefont size helps with emphasis

dont worry i made a new thread to emphasize the emphasis on the emphasizing of the points im trying to make
Dude, you have some solid points but my problem with you mainly is that you pose yourself like a demigod, which we can both agree that is exaggerated

If you have to show how cool you are by comparing yourself with some trolls or guys with really big problems I think that it tells more about you than them

There are some guys with decent experience here, just try to be in discussions with those guys rather than the really active guys that just parrot the same garbage all the time

Otherwise you ain’t more than a drama queen, just like them :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its definitely possible to get banned on request . Pan87, @Pedrito0906 and @Zimbabwe did it iirc.

So @BackInTheGame78 @Billtx49 @Serenity why is this man still here?

By the way I am not trying to sit on the chair of the moderator, just curious why a man who makes a thread asking to be banned doesn't get "respected" on his request.

My geuss..this man is AGAIN all talk but no action.
 

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Its definitely possible to get banned on request . Pan87, @Pedrito0906 and @Zimbabwe did it iirc.
Those were under different circumstances, can't go into more detail because of privacy reasons. Razor isn't exactly trying to hide...

So @BackInTheGame78 @Billtx49 @Serenity why is this man still here?
He's clearly having an episode or something, I'll give him a few more days to calm down and think. I don't think he'll really stay away, I don't want this BS to repeat itself with new accounts.

My geuss..this man is AGAIN all talk but no action.
As evidenced by him not just following my guide to lock himself out of his account, it achieves the same. Actually it's better because it doesn't let him log back in to PM me asking to be unbanned when he changes his mind.
 
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