"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nothing better than reading two engineers arguing on an anonymous men's forum over who's better with women..........
Actually that's not it at all. This all started several threads ago because BigGumby wants to proclaim he has some great physique when I simply pointed out the truth to him, and his fragile ego couldn't handle it. That's where all of this stemmed from.

He continues to try to browbeat me into uploading some pics not wanting to use the search functionality to see the ones I already have uploaded. I dunno...maybe his escorts want him to find pictures of someone who looks good with his shirt off so they can ogle over them or set up a session for Neil to watch and film while she gets railed 6 ways to Sunday by a muscular dude ...he seems pretty obsessed with the whole thing. Who knows.

As others basically agreed with me, he decides to resort to childish name calling, temper tantrums and challenges to fight like we are in 5th grade. Then of course it evolves into what any thread BigGumby is a part of evolves to...him talking about throwing around his beta bucks on women, how much money he makes and all the hot strippers/escorts he gets by paying for them.

At this point, I just keep going because I am having so much fun seeing what he comes up with next to attempt to insult me with. I'm waiting for him to tell me I don't know how to use a function pointer properly or overload a method...now THOSE would be some fighting words :p
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SS needs to get him a used bowling trophy with his name engraved on it and a plaque.
It would be funny to have a trophy for getting most likes on a seduction forum, and it would have a guy bowling on it. :)
Try explaining that one to your friends: "Well, it's because bowling makes a good action date".
 
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What am I supposed to need from them? A good conversation?

I mean...

I've had female dentists, lawyers, realtors, etc, but I don't think that's what we're talking about.
Your mom carried you to term. We're you "using" her? Are you still "using" your mom? Or are you still using a losing stance?

You sound like a so-called "mgtow".

You use the "using" stance for half the population of the human race in a laughable attempt to "justify" your spam mantra and coping mechanism "comfort zone".

reciprocation. get used to it.
 
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It would be funny to have a trophy for getting most likes on a seduction forum, and it would have a guy bowling on it. :)
Try explaining that one to your friends: "Well, it's because bowling makes a good action date".
Neil would hold it proud with his bowtie and impress the escort who hasn't put out yet in a picture at their next all neil expenses paid resort getaway.

maybe a personalized license plate: ssmostlikes
 
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Your mom carried you to term. We're you "using" her? Are you still "using" your mom? Or are you still using a losing stance?

You sound like a so-called "mgtow".

You use the "using" stance for half the population of the human race in a laughable attempt to "justify" your spam mantra and coping mechanism "comfort zone".

reciprocation. get used to it.
Okay, so reciprocation is a trade...

They get money. What do I get?

I see that I have much to offer and they have nothing to offer.

If I wanted to trade sex for money, I could get a hooker, so what is the point of a relationship? Other than making a baby, but let's be honest, most girls are idiotic drug addicts who don't deserve to have babies.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, so reciprocation is a trade...

They get money. What do I get?

I see that I have much to offer and they have nothing to offer.

If I wanted to trade sex for money, I could get a hooker, so what is the point of a relationship? Other than making a baby, but let's be honest, most girls are idiotic drug addicts who don't deserve to have babies.
start posting video field reports of you offering non prostitue chicks your money for sex.

If they aren't interested in you they aren't taking your beta bucks.

no more talk. prove it with action.
 
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Show pictures of hot girls you've been with for free. Or are you just a KJ?
chicks are free to be with you like you are free to be with them. If you don't want to believe it then either post video proof of you paying chicks to be with you or post them paying you.

You won't. because you're a kj.
 
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chicks are free to be with you like you are free to be with them. If you don't want to believe it then either post video proof of you paying chicks to be with you or post them paying you.

You won't. because you're a kj.
Do you not believe that girls on SA accept money for sex?

I'm asking if YOU have sex with any attractive girls for free. And if you don't, then you have no advice to give.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, it's probably already on order. (Sorry Neil, it's funny)
Damn...I thought it would have been either B8aBuxxx or BigGumby
 
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How is this Thread helping make better men ?....
 
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