"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yungahdubz

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I've just recently made my lifting workout, but i don't know how many reps and sets to do. Atm I'm doing:

Bench Presses
Overhead Presses
Barbell Rows
Squats
Dead lifts
Bar Dips

I'm not naturally strong so i doubt I'll be able to do many, but any help would be appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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For the first two or three weeks, I'd recommend using less weight for 10-12 reps while focusing on perfect form. Once you've learned the lifts well, try to work with more weight in the 3-8 rep range.
 

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Check out the "Where to Start" sticky at the top of the forum. Good ideas for starter programs, including all sets/reps.
 

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Good selection of exercises.
Do half of those one day (e.g: Squat, BP, Row, the other DL, OP, Dip) one day for 5x5 sets/reps, and the same the next.
With the deadlift, however, you do one or two sets of 5 then build up to your maximum with 5x1, thats 5 sets of 1 rep.
 

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yungahdubz said:
I've just recently made my lifting workout, but i don't know how many reps and sets to do. Atm I'm doing:

Bench Presses
Overhead Presses
Barbell Rows
Squats
Dead lifts
Bar Dips

I'm not naturally strong so i doubt I'll be able to do many, but any help would be appreciated.
Try this beginner strength training program

Do 5x5 : 5sets of 5reps.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yungahdubz

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Cheers for the info lads.
 

yungahdubz

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No, i wasn't planning to do all those in workout :p . But I've decided to try out Stronglifts's Beginner Training Program. I've checked out the site and the program looks pretty good.
 

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ha good.
if you dont like that program you could check out Starting Strength.
i made awsome gains from that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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