"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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yungahdubz

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I've just recently made my lifting workout, but i don't know how many reps and sets to do. Atm I'm doing:

Bench Presses
Overhead Presses
Barbell Rows
Squats
Dead lifts
Bar Dips

I'm not naturally strong so i doubt I'll be able to do many, but any help would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For the first two or three weeks, I'd recommend using less weight for 10-12 reps while focusing on perfect form. Once you've learned the lifts well, try to work with more weight in the 3-8 rep range.
 

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Check out the "Where to Start" sticky at the top of the forum. Good ideas for starter programs, including all sets/reps.
 

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Good selection of exercises.
Do half of those one day (e.g: Squat, BP, Row, the other DL, OP, Dip) one day for 5x5 sets/reps, and the same the next.
With the deadlift, however, you do one or two sets of 5 then build up to your maximum with 5x1, thats 5 sets of 1 rep.
 

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yungahdubz said:
I've just recently made my lifting workout, but i don't know how many reps and sets to do. Atm I'm doing:

Bench Presses
Overhead Presses
Barbell Rows
Squats
Dead lifts
Bar Dips

I'm not naturally strong so i doubt I'll be able to do many, but any help would be appreciated.
Try this beginner strength training program

Do 5x5 : 5sets of 5reps.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yungahdubz

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Cheers for the info lads.
 

yungahdubz

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No, i wasn't planning to do all those in workout :p . But I've decided to try out Stronglifts's Beginner Training Program. I've checked out the site and the program looks pretty good.
 

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ha good.
if you dont like that program you could check out Starting Strength.
i made awsome gains from that
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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