"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yungahdubz

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I've just recently made my lifting workout, but i don't know how many reps and sets to do. Atm I'm doing:

Bench Presses
Overhead Presses
Barbell Rows
Squats
Dead lifts
Bar Dips

I'm not naturally strong so i doubt I'll be able to do many, but any help would be appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For the first two or three weeks, I'd recommend using less weight for 10-12 reps while focusing on perfect form. Once you've learned the lifts well, try to work with more weight in the 3-8 rep range.
 

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Check out the "Where to Start" sticky at the top of the forum. Good ideas for starter programs, including all sets/reps.
 

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Good selection of exercises.
Do half of those one day (e.g: Squat, BP, Row, the other DL, OP, Dip) one day for 5x5 sets/reps, and the same the next.
With the deadlift, however, you do one or two sets of 5 then build up to your maximum with 5x1, thats 5 sets of 1 rep.
 

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yungahdubz said:
I've just recently made my lifting workout, but i don't know how many reps and sets to do. Atm I'm doing:

Bench Presses
Overhead Presses
Barbell Rows
Squats
Dead lifts
Bar Dips

I'm not naturally strong so i doubt I'll be able to do many, but any help would be appreciated.
Try this beginner strength training program

Do 5x5 : 5sets of 5reps.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yungahdubz

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Cheers for the info lads.
 

yungahdubz

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No, i wasn't planning to do all those in workout :p . But I've decided to try out Stronglifts's Beginner Training Program. I've checked out the site and the program looks pretty good.
 

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ha good.
if you dont like that program you could check out Starting Strength.
i made awsome gains from that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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