"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Background info: I have improved myself (contacts, acne, and style) so as of now I am feeling good about myself.

Well after texting this chick who is a friend of a friend and an indirect coworker of mine, i tell her that she owe's me because she will not be at my going away party to college.....her response is: lol, what do i owe you?

I have a feeling that i could really use this question to my advantage, so my question is: how do i respond to that?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't think you even have to respond to that... but I am no expert either.
 
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lol you tryna turn it around for sex. get rid of your horny thoughts.
 
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MR MIZUN0 said:
...her response is: lol, what do i owe you?

I have a feeling that i could really use this question to my advantage, so my question is: how do i respond to that?
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You can either respond to that by something stupid/random, like (I don't know lol) four sticks of toothpaste, four pillows and a banana.

or just get another girl that you see... and then text her back and vaguely put that nvm, its taken care of.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MR MIZUN0 said:
Background info: I have improved myself (contacts, acne, and style) so as of now I am feeling good about myself.

Well after texting this chick who is a friend of a friend and an indirect coworker of mine, i tell her that she owe's me because she will not be at my going away party to college.....her response is: lol, what do i owe you?

I have a feeling that i could really use this question to my advantage, so my question is: how do i respond to that?
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A game of pool.

Ice cream.

Etc.

You can go from there ;)
 
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MikeBrown30 said:
Yes, let's become pussified and never think about sex.
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Pussified? So you're implying that women don't think about sex? You're so wrong lol.

You have a lot to learn young AFC.
 
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SeymourCake said:
Pussified? So you're implying that women don't think about sex? You're so wrong lol.

You have a lot to learn young AFC.
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He's implying that you shouldn't repress your sexuality, not that of the other gender.
 
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I know, but the chick the OP was talking about showed no IOI (or he didn't mention it). If she did, then that's when you can get flirty in a sexual sense. If no IOIs were shown, then she'll see you as a creep.

It's an IOI if-
what she says
-she tries to end silence; ex- "so..."
-she initiates contact with you
-asks about name/age/ethnicity/fragrance/clothing
-married women talks incessently to you, yet never mentions the husband
-asks you if you're leaving when you put something away or put on your gloves, etc
what she does
-she plays with her hair while talking to you
-you sense jealousy when you mention another female
-she initiates kino
-she makes eye contact then smiles at you
-she brings her group of friends to stand near your group of friends and keeps looking over
-she watches you on the dancefloor
-body language i.e If she moves her body around to face you while you are talking
-grabbing hat/ring etc. and putting it on unprovoked or touches any article of clothing
-legs become intertwined with yours
-leans in while talking to you
-looks at you when you look away, then turns away when you look back

You absolutely know you're in when
-she puts her hand on your leg
-licks her lips when talking to
-she tries to grab your attention constantly
-she grabs your crotch or ass
-you can see her giving you the doggy dinner bowl eyes
-she takes your cell phone without warning and she put her phone number in
 
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SeymourCake said:
I know, but the chick the OP was talking about showed no IOI (or he didn't mention it). If she did, then that's when you can get flirty in a sexual sense. If no IOIs were shown, then she'll see you as a creep.
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Exactly. The OP might be able to turn it around into something fun that she might be interested in (catching up over drinks?), but it would totally be an AFC move to think that it can go straight to sex.

"You can't make it to my party? Oh, then you owe me a rim job."

Sorry boys, but the game is not that simple.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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