"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dawg89

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i dont know what to do when a girl says i need a boyfriend badly or i need a man like what are they trying to say they trying to hint out they like me? or this just randomly bytching? what should i say or do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well off the top of my head I would say something like "Me too!!!"

But like really I would be like "umm well there are 3,000,000,000 men approxamitly. I am sure one of those dudes is desperate."

Then it always depends on the girl. lol
 

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Her: "i need a boyfriend"

You: "Go on...."

Her: "well i need someone to take me out tomorrow to a party"

You: "Go on...."

Her: "well... i was thinking....ermmm..."

You: "go on...."

lol... has anyone seen the episode of "Family guy" when Peter Griffen keeps saying that lmao

Anyways... id say something like "alright ill check my schedule, but a lotta girls already got me booked" lol

Altho thatd make me look like a player...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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S-lemond

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i like the comment bout the 3 million guys! nice one! what would i do without you guys, i think my game(confidence) increases eveytime u guys post! keep it up, and stay positive, and remeber, its not what u say, but how you say
 

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My reply to this chik that once said that to me was"Well I need a f*** buddy, maybe we can work something out?".
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
What's wrong with that, eh? :cool:
Well seriously....

To your guy friends it may sound cool

But you should know girls avoid players...
 

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The go on approach sounds good.
If she says "thats it", say "i don't like guys, myself"
:D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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