"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dawg89

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i dont know what to do when a girl says i need a boyfriend badly or i need a man like what are they trying to say they trying to hint out they like me? or this just randomly bytching? what should i say or do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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08aisaac

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Well off the top of my head I would say something like "Me too!!!"

But like really I would be like "umm well there are 3,000,000,000 men approxamitly. I am sure one of those dudes is desperate."

Then it always depends on the girl. lol
 

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Her: "i need a boyfriend"

You: "Go on...."

Her: "well i need someone to take me out tomorrow to a party"

You: "Go on...."

Her: "well... i was thinking....ermmm..."

You: "go on...."

lol... has anyone seen the episode of "Family guy" when Peter Griffen keeps saying that lmao

Anyways... id say something like "alright ill check my schedule, but a lotta girls already got me booked" lol

Altho thatd make me look like a player...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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S-lemond

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i like the comment bout the 3 million guys! nice one! what would i do without you guys, i think my game(confidence) increases eveytime u guys post! keep it up, and stay positive, and remeber, its not what u say, but how you say
 

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My reply to this chik that once said that to me was"Well I need a f*** buddy, maybe we can work something out?".
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
What's wrong with that, eh? :cool:
Well seriously....

To your guy friends it may sound cool

But you should know girls avoid players...
 

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The go on approach sounds good.
If she says "thats it", say "i don't like guys, myself"
:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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