"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dawg89

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i dont know what to do when a girl says i need a boyfriend badly or i need a man like what are they trying to say they trying to hint out they like me? or this just randomly bytching? what should i say or do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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08aisaac

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Well off the top of my head I would say something like "Me too!!!"

But like really I would be like "umm well there are 3,000,000,000 men approxamitly. I am sure one of those dudes is desperate."

Then it always depends on the girl. lol
 

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Her: "i need a boyfriend"

You: "Go on...."

Her: "well i need someone to take me out tomorrow to a party"

You: "Go on...."

Her: "well... i was thinking....ermmm..."

You: "go on...."

lol... has anyone seen the episode of "Family guy" when Peter Griffen keeps saying that lmao

Anyways... id say something like "alright ill check my schedule, but a lotta girls already got me booked" lol

Altho thatd make me look like a player...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S-lemond

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i like the comment bout the 3 million guys! nice one! what would i do without you guys, i think my game(confidence) increases eveytime u guys post! keep it up, and stay positive, and remeber, its not what u say, but how you say
 

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My reply to this chik that once said that to me was"Well I need a f*** buddy, maybe we can work something out?".
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
What's wrong with that, eh? :cool:
Well seriously....

To your guy friends it may sound cool

But you should know girls avoid players...
 

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The go on approach sounds good.
If she says "thats it", say "i don't like guys, myself"
:D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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