"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LouBrication

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i've been getting this question a lot because i tend to talk about other girls while i'm in a conversation with a girl. and i love when a they ask this question... anyway here's how it usually goes with me...

me: that girl over there is cute but she's not my type
girl: so what is your type? (this is the usual resposne)
me: well... you're sort of my type..... but not really... *smiles*

then she'll wanna know what i mean, but i'll leave her hanging... it drives 'em crazy.... i find that if she is interested, she'll try to validate herself.

anyway how do you guys handle this question.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cod3r

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That's how a conversation goes with a female that's already interested in you. Try that cold and you won't get the typical response. I don't use 'canned' material, I flow with whatever comes out of my mouth.


-Cod3r
 

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Agreed....its a canned line that can be seen from the moon.

May work on intrested girls but not cold convo like Cod3r said.


I dont really have a type...Rather than say what you said above...i would be abit more sutle. Decribe one or two features that SHE has.




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lil pimpin

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yes canned lines may be limited, but it can be useful to those of us who have trouble with what to say next.

i'd point to a super fat chick and say she's my type... cuz fat people are sexy.
 

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LouBrication said:
me: well... you're sort of my type..... but not really... *smiles*
her: *laughs* what do you mean sort of?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hmm..

I would say "It's my secret," or just flat out "I'm not going to tell you."
 

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lil pimpin said:
i'd point to a super fat chick and say she's my type... cuz fat people are sexy.
haha... yeah, fat chicks are hot... like they have lots of body heat... due to their layers of fat, they can survive in cold weather. and that is sexy! lol.

ok, that's just mean... stop teasing fat chicks or you'll end up having an orgy with 3 of them and you'll break your ribs, then your bed will break and you'll fall through the floor into the living room... and that's not sexy... well not THAT sexy. :crackup:
 

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This situation is to female for me
Too much complex mental ****

Its like you want her to ask you if you like her

Why not avoid that and say you know what I like your style

or if you arent that hip

something to the extent of I like your demeanor

if she asks what do you mean

tell her I like the way you interact with the world

or The way you carry yourself I cant help but be attracted to you

If your talking like this you should know shes interested in you
and I usually lay it on thick because by this point shes wanting things to progress
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just say, "I don't analyze that kind of thing. It takes the fun out of it, you know?" Leave her wondering... :up:
 

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LouBrication said:
me: well... you're sort of my type..... but not really... *smiles*
I wouldn't use that if I were you. You don't need to give her a stright answer, you can use C&F for that one:

Here is a better answer: "My type is a girl who is 4'9 250lbs bald headed harcore tattoo artist with a hump on her back".

or give her the answer which most girls think about when they are asked that question but never dare to say it out loud (they will love this answer) : "Actually my type is a very rich woman who will take care of me and buy me stuff because I am so handsome and I deserve it".
 

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"Female"

"Tig ol' Bitties"

"Who wants to know?"

"What do YOU think my type is? Describe it."

"Hmm... let's see. (Then you go over her body as you list features). Brunette (play with her hair), Brown eyes (point to her eyes), sexy hips (hold her sides), etc." You need to know the girl pretty well, and she needs to be totally comfortable with you and kino. Probably best done on a 2nd/3rd date or something.
 

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I tell the truth---- a girl with a great personality that isnt too modern to act like a lady. She has to be able to laugh, act silly, and a big smile is a must...
 
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