"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LouBrication

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i've been getting this question a lot because i tend to talk about other girls while i'm in a conversation with a girl. and i love when a they ask this question... anyway here's how it usually goes with me...

me: that girl over there is cute but she's not my type
girl: so what is your type? (this is the usual resposne)
me: well... you're sort of my type..... but not really... *smiles*

then she'll wanna know what i mean, but i'll leave her hanging... it drives 'em crazy.... i find that if she is interested, she'll try to validate herself.

anyway how do you guys handle this question.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cod3r

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That's how a conversation goes with a female that's already interested in you. Try that cold and you won't get the typical response. I don't use 'canned' material, I flow with whatever comes out of my mouth.


-Cod3r
 

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Agreed....its a canned line that can be seen from the moon.

May work on intrested girls but not cold convo like Cod3r said.


I dont really have a type...Rather than say what you said above...i would be abit more sutle. Decribe one or two features that SHE has.




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lil pimpin

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yes canned lines may be limited, but it can be useful to those of us who have trouble with what to say next.

i'd point to a super fat chick and say she's my type... cuz fat people are sexy.
 

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LouBrication said:
me: well... you're sort of my type..... but not really... *smiles*
her: *laughs* what do you mean sort of?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmm..

I would say "It's my secret," or just flat out "I'm not going to tell you."
 

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lil pimpin said:
i'd point to a super fat chick and say she's my type... cuz fat people are sexy.
haha... yeah, fat chicks are hot... like they have lots of body heat... due to their layers of fat, they can survive in cold weather. and that is sexy! lol.

ok, that's just mean... stop teasing fat chicks or you'll end up having an orgy with 3 of them and you'll break your ribs, then your bed will break and you'll fall through the floor into the living room... and that's not sexy... well not THAT sexy. :crackup:
 

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This situation is to female for me
Too much complex mental ****

Its like you want her to ask you if you like her

Why not avoid that and say you know what I like your style

or if you arent that hip

something to the extent of I like your demeanor

if she asks what do you mean

tell her I like the way you interact with the world

or The way you carry yourself I cant help but be attracted to you

If your talking like this you should know shes interested in you
and I usually lay it on thick because by this point shes wanting things to progress
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just say, "I don't analyze that kind of thing. It takes the fun out of it, you know?" Leave her wondering... :up:
 

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LouBrication said:
me: well... you're sort of my type..... but not really... *smiles*
I wouldn't use that if I were you. You don't need to give her a stright answer, you can use C&F for that one:

Here is a better answer: "My type is a girl who is 4'9 250lbs bald headed harcore tattoo artist with a hump on her back".

or give her the answer which most girls think about when they are asked that question but never dare to say it out loud (they will love this answer) : "Actually my type is a very rich woman who will take care of me and buy me stuff because I am so handsome and I deserve it".
 

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"Female"

"Tig ol' Bitties"

"Who wants to know?"

"What do YOU think my type is? Describe it."

"Hmm... let's see. (Then you go over her body as you list features). Brunette (play with her hair), Brown eyes (point to her eyes), sexy hips (hold her sides), etc." You need to know the girl pretty well, and she needs to be totally comfortable with you and kino. Probably best done on a 2nd/3rd date or something.
 

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I tell the truth---- a girl with a great personality that isnt too modern to act like a lady. She has to be able to laugh, act silly, and a big smile is a must...
 
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