I have an issue that must be resolved in the next 2 hours: yesterday i called this girl twice ( once at noon and at 3), then left a message asking if she wanted to go to the movies (i know, dumb move). never got a responce, but i dout she checks her house messages often. so today we are going to the movies again, and i am debating if i should call. im not desperate by any means, but i think that this forth call will seem a little desperate to her. im leaning towards not calling and just talking on monday, but im still not sure. what do you guys think?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
repeated calls
- Thread starter chill
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
redbyte
Don Juan
Don't call
Seen the movie Swinger??
Thats what can happen.
Seen the movie Swinger??
Thats what can happen.
I would have only called once.
There's a commercial for some shady lawyers that airs on TV here. Although they're not too reputable, their slogan rings true:
"One call, that's all".
You make one call, period. Let her return your damn call. If she doesn't, cut bait.
There is a certain ruthlessness that must be employed in dealing with women and the telephone.
There's a commercial for some shady lawyers that airs on TV here. Although they're not too reputable, their slogan rings true:
"One call, that's all".
You make one call, period. Let her return your damn call. If she doesn't, cut bait.
There is a certain ruthlessness that must be employed in dealing with women and the telephone.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if shes interested, she will call .
trust the wise ones here and please put the phone down.
we tell you this for a reason, we have all exprienced this.
put the phone down, walk away from the phone.
i am a chick, trust me, the minute someone says so and so called , if we like him , we dash to the phone to call him back.
trust the wise ones here and please put the phone down.
we tell you this for a reason, we have all exprienced this.
put the phone down, walk away from the phone.
i am a chick, trust me, the minute someone says so and so called , if we like him , we dash to the phone to call him back.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ty ty just being honestOriginally posted by Luscious
Let's all give this woman a huge round of applause