I have an issue that must be resolved in the next 2 hours: yesterday i called this girl twice ( once at noon and at 3), then left a message asking if she wanted to go to the movies (i know, dumb move). never got a responce, but i dout she checks her house messages often. so today we are going to the movies again, and i am debating if i should call. im not desperate by any means, but i think that this forth call will seem a little desperate to her. im leaning towards not calling and just talking on monday, but im still not sure. what do you guys think?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
repeated calls
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- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
redbyte
Don Juan
Don't call
Seen the movie Swinger??
Thats what can happen.
Seen the movie Swinger??
Thats what can happen.
I would have only called once.
There's a commercial for some shady lawyers that airs on TV here. Although they're not too reputable, their slogan rings true:
"One call, that's all".
You make one call, period. Let her return your damn call. If she doesn't, cut bait.
There is a certain ruthlessness that must be employed in dealing with women and the telephone.
There's a commercial for some shady lawyers that airs on TV here. Although they're not too reputable, their slogan rings true:
"One call, that's all".
You make one call, period. Let her return your damn call. If she doesn't, cut bait.
There is a certain ruthlessness that must be employed in dealing with women and the telephone.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if shes interested, she will call .
trust the wise ones here and please put the phone down.
we tell you this for a reason, we have all exprienced this.
put the phone down, walk away from the phone.
i am a chick, trust me, the minute someone says so and so called , if we like him , we dash to the phone to call him back.
trust the wise ones here and please put the phone down.
we tell you this for a reason, we have all exprienced this.
put the phone down, walk away from the phone.
i am a chick, trust me, the minute someone says so and so called , if we like him , we dash to the phone to call him back.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ty ty just being honestOriginally posted by Luscious
Let's all give this woman a huge round of applause