"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Renting First Time

Metaphysical

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Still looking for a place. Anyone renting in Toronto, Chicago, New York, or anywhere else where the rent is $1500+ for a small 1 bedroom?

I've been looking around and found a couple of nice places, but they are so damn expensive.

So I can get an APARTMENT building for like $1400/month - but it was build in the 70s-80s and it's kind of ugly. A nice condo is ~$1800 a month.

Now I make decent money, but it's still a LOT of money just for rent. I was thinking maybe about a room mate, but that's a hassle too...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Borknagar

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Are you serious? That much for an apt? ****, I wouldn't pay a penny over MAYBE $800 for an apt, and still, it would be a rip off. For that kind of money, you could easily afford a mortgage on a decent 2 bedroom house/condo/townhome. That would be a much better route and investment.
 

Borknagar

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As a matter of fact, I live in the twin cities, which is decent, I know not the liveliest area, but those other places aren't worth justifying that kind of money for a stinkin one bedroom. Seriously, purchase a house, you'll be glad you did. A house is much more impressive than a apt/condo, especially at those rip-off prices.
 

Metaphysical

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Borknagar said:
As a matter of fact, I live in the twin cities, which is decent, I know not the liveliest area, but those other places aren't worth justifying that kind of money for a stinkin one bedroom. Seriously, purchase a house, you'll be glad you did. A house is much more impressive than a apt/condo, especially at those rip-off prices.
homes are 1million+ in Toronto
 

Zerro

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Metaphysical said:
A nice condo is ~$1800 a month.
Christ, that is over twice what I'd be paying for mortgage, taxes, insurance, and utilities combined for the 3-bedroom houses I am currently looking at 30-to-60 minutes outside of Chicago. Not to mention that you're not building any equity while you're renting makes even more of a raw deal.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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