"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BillyPilgrim

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Who aren't worshipping statism. I found it really hard to find women who aren't insane like this:(
Just got to go deep in them hollers and find yourself a nice hillbilly girl with 2 eyes and all 4 limbs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJefe19

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That's interesting. Most of the women where I live aren't like that, but then again I live in Florida.

In my experience, if the woman likes you enough she'll become more sympathetic to your views, or maybe you could go overseas.
I have an on and off fwb that's convinced that she can convert me to a post-modernist view but proceeds to tell me that she is a moderate. She seems pretty okay with me not liking her idea of abortion but man, I'm bit hesitant to tell her that people that claim to be transgender are being disingenuous. She's not ready for that debate.
 

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I mean, which do you prefer more...meeting women, or staying within your comfort zone?

There are certainly higher-class bars where young professionals go, rather than college girls and frat boys. I don't particularly love driving an hour to go out in Philly either. But I know if I stay in and do nothing, I won't meet anyone.
touché, I can scout out upscale venues
 
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