"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd like to remind you guys not to post any material which you did not write yourself without the permission of the author.

If you read something cool, why don't you email the author and invite him/her to post it here in this forum. If they're smart they will, as it's free advertising for them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My RSS tactics are completely new original material.
Don't worry about it Allen


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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
I'd like to remind you guys not to post any material which you did not write yourself without the permission of the author.

If you read something cool, why don't you email the author and invite him/her to post it here in this forum. If they're smart they will, as it's free advertising for them.
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Oops!...Sorry for overlooking that. Thanks for the reminder!



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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whoops, my bad! Thanks for the reminder.
 
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OOPS! Thanks for the reminder.

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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.

- Roosevelt

[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 05-08-2001).]
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What kind of losers do that kind of sh*t?!
 
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Originally posted by trickynick:
What kind of losers do that kind of sh*t?!
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Pook, Anti-Dump, Red-xL, Jake Steed, trickynick, sosuave.com, ...


No MAN I'M KIDDIN'

Really; THIS IS A JOKE!!!



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Hey man, are you picking ANOTHER fight with me, Alan? Remember what happened last time?
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Err, I meant the time befor that, duh, jeeze how dense cna you be, Alan?
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Alrite thats it! Ur gona get it now, HEY, ow ow ow, uncle uncle, Jesus, Harry, and the 101 Holy-Helpers! Where did u learn THAT move, and more importantly, where the hell were you hiding those handcuffs?
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Hey, don't sas me, do u know who I am!?
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O, so u do... then you must be very foolish, that or have the polish mob on your side
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O, I KNEW IT... mwahahaha, folish Pollock! Your mafia will never take over canada, you stand out too much! Even the colmon man will realize something is up when you walk in in a diagnal stripe shirt and pokadot pants!
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DRESS AS ITALIANS!? HOLY DESCISES BATMAN, WHAT A DEVILISH PLAN!
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Well u don't gota take it personal ya dumb Pollock...
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O, ya, I forgot I was Pollish, r ya gona gimi the key to these handcuffs? At leased gimi back my pants...
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Ok, ok, keep the pants... don't think they'll fit fat ass!
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Said what? It wasn't me, thats for shure

EXCETERA!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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