"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Remembering John Lennon

dirtyvibe

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John Lennon was murdered this month, 26 years ago.

a link to one of his most famous and most meaningful songs: http://youtube.com/watch?v=zj8LR25HeJA

A brief biography from his wikipedia article:
John Ono Lennon, MBE (born John Winston Lennon, 9 October 1940 – 8 December 1980) was an iconic 20th century English rock and roll songwriter and singer, who gained worldwide fame as the founder of The Beatles. He and Paul McCartney formed the hugely successful Lennon/McCartney songwriting partnership - writing songs for The Beatles and other artists.[1] As a writing pair, Lennon's hard edge and McCartney's optimism complemented one another.[2] The Beatles revolutionised rock music with their lyrics, instrumentation, harmonies, and electronic effects. In his successful solo career, Lennon wrote and recorded songs such as "Imagine" and "Give Peace a Chance" that became anthems of their age.

Lennon, on television and in films such as A Hard Day's Night (1964), and in press conferences and interviews, revealed his rebellious, iconoclastic nature and quick, irreverent wit. He channeled his fame and penchant for controversy into his work as a peace activist, artist and author.

He had one son, Julian, with his first wife, Cynthia. He and his second wife - avant-garde artist Yoko Ono - had one son, Sean. Lennon was murdered in New York City on December 8, 1980, by a deranged fan as he and Ono returned home from a recording session. He was - and continues to be - mourned throughout the world.

In 2002, respondents to a BBC poll about the 100 Greatest Britons voted Lennon into eighth place.
If John Lennon had lived to today, maybe the world would be really different. Incredible man.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The average person in here don't know John Lennon or had never seen him.
 

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Anti-American, hippie Communist.

That being said, I wish Yoko got it instead of him.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Derek Flint said:
Anti-American, hippie Communist.

That being said, I wish Yoko got it instead of him.

Dude should have taken them both out. I think Beavis said it best:

"Those a$$wipes the Beatles ruined music."

My sentiments exactly.
 
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