"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Remembering John Lennon

dirtyvibe

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John Lennon was murdered this month, 26 years ago.

a link to one of his most famous and most meaningful songs: http://youtube.com/watch?v=zj8LR25HeJA

A brief biography from his wikipedia article:
John Ono Lennon, MBE (born John Winston Lennon, 9 October 1940 – 8 December 1980) was an iconic 20th century English rock and roll songwriter and singer, who gained worldwide fame as the founder of The Beatles. He and Paul McCartney formed the hugely successful Lennon/McCartney songwriting partnership - writing songs for The Beatles and other artists.[1] As a writing pair, Lennon's hard edge and McCartney's optimism complemented one another.[2] The Beatles revolutionised rock music with their lyrics, instrumentation, harmonies, and electronic effects. In his successful solo career, Lennon wrote and recorded songs such as "Imagine" and "Give Peace a Chance" that became anthems of their age.

Lennon, on television and in films such as A Hard Day's Night (1964), and in press conferences and interviews, revealed his rebellious, iconoclastic nature and quick, irreverent wit. He channeled his fame and penchant for controversy into his work as a peace activist, artist and author.

He had one son, Julian, with his first wife, Cynthia. He and his second wife - avant-garde artist Yoko Ono - had one son, Sean. Lennon was murdered in New York City on December 8, 1980, by a deranged fan as he and Ono returned home from a recording session. He was - and continues to be - mourned throughout the world.

In 2002, respondents to a BBC poll about the 100 Greatest Britons voted Lennon into eighth place.
If John Lennon had lived to today, maybe the world would be really different. Incredible man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The average person in here don't know John Lennon or had never seen him.
 

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Anti-American, hippie Communist.

That being said, I wish Yoko got it instead of him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Flint said:
Anti-American, hippie Communist.

That being said, I wish Yoko got it instead of him.

Dude should have taken them both out. I think Beavis said it best:

"Those a$$wipes the Beatles ruined music."

My sentiments exactly.
 
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