"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Remembering John Lennon

dirtyvibe

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John Lennon was murdered this month, 26 years ago.

a link to one of his most famous and most meaningful songs: http://youtube.com/watch?v=zj8LR25HeJA

A brief biography from his wikipedia article:
John Ono Lennon, MBE (born John Winston Lennon, 9 October 1940 – 8 December 1980) was an iconic 20th century English rock and roll songwriter and singer, who gained worldwide fame as the founder of The Beatles. He and Paul McCartney formed the hugely successful Lennon/McCartney songwriting partnership - writing songs for The Beatles and other artists.[1] As a writing pair, Lennon's hard edge and McCartney's optimism complemented one another.[2] The Beatles revolutionised rock music with their lyrics, instrumentation, harmonies, and electronic effects. In his successful solo career, Lennon wrote and recorded songs such as "Imagine" and "Give Peace a Chance" that became anthems of their age.

Lennon, on television and in films such as A Hard Day's Night (1964), and in press conferences and interviews, revealed his rebellious, iconoclastic nature and quick, irreverent wit. He channeled his fame and penchant for controversy into his work as a peace activist, artist and author.

He had one son, Julian, with his first wife, Cynthia. He and his second wife - avant-garde artist Yoko Ono - had one son, Sean. Lennon was murdered in New York City on December 8, 1980, by a deranged fan as he and Ono returned home from a recording session. He was - and continues to be - mourned throughout the world.

In 2002, respondents to a BBC poll about the 100 Greatest Britons voted Lennon into eighth place.
If John Lennon had lived to today, maybe the world would be really different. Incredible man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The average person in here don't know John Lennon or had never seen him.
 

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Anti-American, hippie Communist.

That being said, I wish Yoko got it instead of him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Derek Flint said:
Anti-American, hippie Communist.

That being said, I wish Yoko got it instead of him.

Dude should have taken them both out. I think Beavis said it best:

"Those a$$wipes the Beatles ruined music."

My sentiments exactly.
 
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