"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Relocated – need some advice
- Thread starter djzulu
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I have- in fact I have this hottie neighbor, really cute girl, lives right across the hall but with such a big attitude; I smiled at her once said 'Hi' tried to start a convo but she was snubby and didn't even say hello. I nexted her that day that moment.bigstik said:Dude, I think you are doing great. Have you thought about the neighbors? Sometimes your neighbors are a great shot, if they are your age. Or hotties.
Other than her - haven't seen a hottie yet in my area.
I agree - and I already have a membership - in fact, one of the first things I did when I came here is get a membership in a gym, and I advise everybody on this board who is relocating, to do the same.juanita said:
Two week – summary – My first # close!
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A little over a month has passed, and I am in a much better situation now. Here is a brief summary of this week’s events:
Wednesday – went out with a guy I met online for a bear, had fun, some EC with girls but that’s it
Thursday – went out with another person I met online, we connected rather well (especially in our philosophy towards girls, pick-up etc).
Friday – Started out at a birthday party at some friends that I know – made some new friends - then went out to some bars – Got my first # close! Cute HB8 girl, college student in her 20’s. Later on met up with the guy from Thursday and we went to a dance club.
Saturday- went out with another friend, had dinner with his family and then we hit a local lounge. Over at the lounge met another cool guy – gave me his # and told me to stay in touch cause he parties a lot.
Overall – things are finally starting to work out.
Conclusion:
First of all, you must be active – and never give up. I have basically met everybody that I know here through one person that I know who used to live here. I met the rest online / socializing etc.
I set a goal to socialize this week and this helped me increase my contacts tenfold. When you set goals then your subconscious mind works to achieve them even when you are not consciously thinking about socializing and making new friends.
That’s it for now – hopefully will have some interesting stories next week.
disfunktional
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.