"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Relocated – need some advice
- Thread starter djzulu
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have- in fact I have this hottie neighbor, really cute girl, lives right across the hall but with such a big attitude; I smiled at her once said 'Hi' tried to start a convo but she was snubby and didn't even say hello. I nexted her that day that moment.bigstik said:Dude, I think you are doing great. Have you thought about the neighbors? Sometimes your neighbors are a great shot, if they are your age. Or hotties.
Other than her - haven't seen a hottie yet in my area.
I agree - and I already have a membership - in fact, one of the first things I did when I came here is get a membership in a gym, and I advise everybody on this board who is relocating, to do the same.juanita said:
Two week – summary – My first # close!
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A little over a month has passed, and I am in a much better situation now. Here is a brief summary of this week’s events:
Wednesday – went out with a guy I met online for a bear, had fun, some EC with girls but that’s it
Thursday – went out with another person I met online, we connected rather well (especially in our philosophy towards girls, pick-up etc).
Friday – Started out at a birthday party at some friends that I know – made some new friends - then went out to some bars – Got my first # close! Cute HB8 girl, college student in her 20’s. Later on met up with the guy from Thursday and we went to a dance club.
Saturday- went out with another friend, had dinner with his family and then we hit a local lounge. Over at the lounge met another cool guy – gave me his # and told me to stay in touch cause he parties a lot.
Overall – things are finally starting to work out.
Conclusion:
First of all, you must be active – and never give up. I have basically met everybody that I know here through one person that I know who used to live here. I met the rest online / socializing etc.
I set a goal to socialize this week and this helped me increase my contacts tenfold. When you set goals then your subconscious mind works to achieve them even when you are not consciously thinking about socializing and making new friends.
That’s it for now – hopefully will have some interesting stories next week.
disfunktional
Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.