Relationships With Zero Arguments & Drama, Is That Normal?

[soulforge]

Lend me your ears guys!

Current chick I am seeing, kept her around as a plate for around a year, then I gave her exlucivity 3 months ago.

Believe me, I have kept her proving herself to me, and litrialy screened her for everything you can imagine.

So we are 1 year and 3 months in... In this time there has not been one SINGLE argument.. And the amount of drama from her? Well next to NOTHING.

She only once got a little upset with me, because I wasn't giving her enough effection, but it was a such minor thing, and lasted about 5mins lol.

She is always respectful, very caring and drama free.

However is it normal for a relationship to have ZERO issues or arguments? I'm not complaining, i'm happy with things the way they are.

However every relationship in the past I have had, has has the odd argument here and there.

 

[marmel75]

Most of mine have been. I'm not big into BS so I tend to push chicks away that always want to start BS...

Not to say you always agree on things but I'd rather discuss them prior to them becoming huge sticking points.

 

[soulforge]

Keep it up and enjoy it. Don't get lazy.

I did date one girl like this, it was great. Sometimes they just bottle things up but no reason to assume that's what's happening here.

She knows deep inside, that i'm not the BS taking kinda guy.. She gets that impression from the way I am with other people.. Instinctively she knows not to cross the line, otherwise I would be gone in a blink.

Affection & my time is given out sparingly, so she makes the most of it.

Maybe once every 3-4 months i buy her a little gift, keep her sweet lol

But you are right.. Game has to be tight at all times, getting LAZY results in nothing good

 

[In2theGame]

Nope! lol at some point in time, sooner or later drama WILL come, how severe? nobody knows except the 2 people involved but this is part of the reason why I do not want a relationship, I just do not have the patience to tolerate any drama or bullsh*t. I have a plate right now who I've been seeing for about 4 years and she knows I don't want a relationship just casual. Even now that i admit, I'm in a dating "slump" and only have 2 girls on my roster but even then, I wont dive into an LTR because of potential drama.

Also, one thing to add that I have come to accept is that Women are going to do what they are going to do. whether it's to your face or behind your back, You can't control it. I save myself the headache by not worrying about drama and I go to bed at night at peace.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I'm 2.5 years into my relationship with zero arguments and drama. I might have gotten mildly mad once or twice at a couple of minor things that have come up (due to her naivety), but nothing of any consequence. We enjoy peace and mutual support. In a relationship like tins, mild annoyances just don't matter that much. The good completely eclipses the occasional minor annoyance.

I say enjoy it while it lasts. I hope it lasts for a good long time.

 

[lamath]

Thats the kind of stuff id love to have.

Hopefully for you she is not internalizing stuff, id watch for some body language signs.

 

[Ranger]

Sure. It can be normal.

 

[lamath]

Sure. It can be normal.

Idk man from my limited experience a power struggle always happens turning things into drama/conflict
Women are always trying to turn us into that beta ideal

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Idk man from my limited experience a power struggle always happens turning things into drama/conflict
Women are always trying to turn us into that beta ideal

Not all. A woman who seeks power will. Some enjoy her man in the position hes in.

 

[soulforge]

Nope! lol at some point in time, sooner or later drama WILL come, how severe? nobody knows except the 2 people involved but this is part of the reason why I do not want a relationship, I just do not have the patience to tolerate any drama or bullsh*t. I have a plate right now who I've been seeing for about 4 years and she knows I don't want a relationship just casual. Even now that i admit, I'm in a dating "slump" and only have 2 girls on my roster but even then, I wont dive into an LTR because of potential drama.

Also, one thing to add that I have come to accept is that Women are going to do what they are going to do. whether it's to your face or behind your back, You can't control it. I save myself the headache by not worrying about drama and I go to bed at night at peace.

This is true.. Drama and games are a inevitably when it comes to woman.. Make the most of it while things are good.. keep your game tight, keep your options open.

If and when chit hits the fan.. Meh just move the fuk on!

 

[soulforge]

Thats the kind of stuff id love to have.

Hopefully for you she is not internalizing stuff, id watch for some body language signs.

If you want a good, drama free relationship, then best make wise decisions bruv!

Find a good balance between attractiveness in a woman, and good wholesome character traits!

If you keep going for the, HOT SEXY wild crazy types.. Then don't be surprised if drama and BS is all you ever get.

 

[soulforge]

Not all. A woman who seeks power will. Some enjoy her man in the position hes in.

Some woman don't care about the power.. They are perfectly happy with the man being a fukin man.. Just don't turn into a needy puzzy, or she will be gone!

 

[lamath]

If you want a good, drama free relationship, then best make wise decisions bruv!

Find a good balance between attractiveness in a woman, and good wholesome character traits!

If you keep going for the, HOT SEXY wild crazy types.. Then don't be surprised if drama and BS is all you ever get.

Making wise decision is not easy, i think the more experience you get with women the wiser you become.

 

[R.U.G.]

Why rock the boat? You're getting along. You're fvcking and having a good time. Stop messing with your head and playing what if scenarios in your head. Your mind can be your worst enemy. Trust me, I've been there as well. Whatever you think is the thing you think you should do, do the opposite.

 

[soulforge]

Making wise decision is not easy, i think the more experience you get with women the wiser you become.

We learn from our mistakes bruv.. Sometimes we have to get burned a few times from the toxic hoes, in order to finally get our chit together and start making wiser decisions.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Some woman don't care about the power.. They are perfectly happy with the man being a fukin man.. Just don't turn into a needy puzzy, or she will be gone!

Yep. Imagine when your being a man, supporting her in a masculine way, fixing things, being motivated that it makes her desire you more.

Many of the women that are being complained about seek masculinity for themselves.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is true.. Drama and games are a inevitably when it comes to woman.. Make the most of it while things are good.. keep your game tight, keep your options open.

If and when chit hits the fan.. Meh just move the fuk on!

Youve never experienced a no drama no game females?

 

[soulforge]

Youve never experienced a no drama no game females?

Not completely free of drama or games.. I think MOST woman a certain amount of BS to the table, but occasionally you can find one, who goes against the grain, and causes little to none problems.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not completely free of drama or games.. I think MOST woman a certain amount of BS to the table, but occasionally you can find one, who goes against the grain, and causes little to none problems.

Ive found a few. Humble happy for what they have dont like to fight. The ones we have issues with want power and many enjoy fighting, drama and games.

 

[ohrein]

Yeah, my relationship is mostly this. We've had maybe 3-4 moderate arguments in a year? They never lasted more than five minutes. Both of us can admit when we're being moody and so we get over it straight away. 99.99% of our relationship has been relaxed and fun. I'm a fairly zen guy so she knows that's what I expect from a relationship but I think she's got a good head on her shoulders too. She seems to be aware that she can be moody.

I think if you actually screen for wholesome traits in women and command respect as the man, these relationships shouldn't be abnormal. It's just we're so used to hooking up with lower quality women with no impulse control and daddy issues, because that's what alpha attracts the most, that a remotely normal relationship seems foreign. Before I found game, I'd had two relationships that were zero drama. I think running the line of being a great guy, not a nice guy nor a jerk is how you get respect and softness. A woman isn't going to relax if you don't make her comfortable.