Jair213
Master Don Juan
Wats the success percentage of an ltr working out?
Why dont they work out?
Why some do?
Discuss.
Why dont they work out?
Why some do?
Discuss.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
relationships are doomed to fail
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
They don't workout because they fall out of love and stop meeting eachothers top emotional needs required to stay in love.
For women its usually intimate conversation and non sexual affection. For guys its recreation and sexual fullfillment. Combine all 4 every date and you will stay in love a long time. Also avoid angry outbursts (these kill love fast) avoid annoying habits (these kill love a death of 1000 cuts) kill dishonesty (this kills love fast too)
There ya have it.
Epi
For women its usually intimate conversation and non sexual affection. For guys its recreation and sexual fullfillment. Combine all 4 every date and you will stay in love a long time. Also avoid angry outbursts (these kill love fast) avoid annoying habits (these kill love a death of 1000 cuts) kill dishonesty (this kills love fast too)
There ya have it.
Epi
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
I don't know why people get worked up about this. Nothing lasts forever, enjoy things for what they are at the time. If you want to be with someone for 2 days or 2 decades, do it for as long as you have a smile on your face.
One day you're going to die, so should you just kill yourself now just to get the inevitable over with? Or enjoy your life for what it is and accept the end when it happens.
I think the best relationships are when people understand that they won't necessarily be together forever but enjoy it whilst they're both still having fun. People try to make out it's a marathon not a sprint but there are no real prizes for longevity.
One day you're going to die, so should you just kill yourself now just to get the inevitable over with? Or enjoy your life for what it is and accept the end when it happens.
I think the best relationships are when people understand that they won't necessarily be together forever but enjoy it whilst they're both still having fun. People try to make out it's a marathon not a sprint but there are no real prizes for longevity.
Serenity
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1. Lack of personal responsibility
2. Fear of loss (neediness)
3. More worried about yourself than focusing on having a good time
4. Not having the balls to face a problem to avoid confrontation
5. Some times people want to go their separate ways, and part as friends.
Apart from 5 they are all connected to 1. Take responsibility for your own happiness for the sake of people around you. That's what works. A good relationship happens when both give to each other and support each other. To make that happen both needs to assume responsibility for their own happiness and not expect their partner to fulfill them.
2. Fear of loss (neediness)
3. More worried about yourself than focusing on having a good time
4. Not having the balls to face a problem to avoid confrontation
5. Some times people want to go their separate ways, and part as friends.
Apart from 5 they are all connected to 1. Take responsibility for your own happiness for the sake of people around you. That's what works. A good relationship happens when both give to each other and support each other. To make that happen both needs to assume responsibility for their own happiness and not expect their partner to fulfill them.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SgtSplacker
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Fact: Every single relationship you take part in is going to fail except one your entire life.
I think relationships fail because men just get relaxed and stop challenging their women. Women have no intention to stop challenging men. So after a while you just stop participating in the shiit tests, then she starts spewing some "you don't care anymore" or "things changed" or something similar. And things decay from there. The constant barrage of blame and accusation from women never stops, so it ends being men's fault in the end.
I think relationships fail because men just get relaxed and stop challenging their women. Women have no intention to stop challenging men. So after a while you just stop participating in the shiit tests, then she starts spewing some "you don't care anymore" or "things changed" or something similar. And things decay from there. The constant barrage of blame and accusation from women never stops, so it ends being men's fault in the end.
zekko
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This is a good attitude ^^^.Mr Wright said:
The thing with relationships is, a lot of people can get together and have fun while the hormones are raging. But once the novelty wears off, if you are not really a good match then there's nothing to keep you together.
The vast majority of LTRs will fail because you aren't really good matches, you're just physically attracted to each other. To further complicate matters, people change over time - they develop different interests and attitudes, try new things. So you can be a good match with someone at first but then seven years later you're not, because one or both of you changed.