"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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warrior1

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To the people who you facebook, whats your thoughts about people who just do not put their relationship status? I know that woman like to put in a relationship with so and so when they like it to be known to other people. The girls i know never put their relationship status if their single or put something girlish like engaged to ..."their so and so girlfriend" Most guys are more straightforward about their relatinship status on facebook but a few do not put it.

Someone says that if your single, you shouldn't put that because it makes the person who have the hots for you think even more of you because they do not know if you're involved or not. As a guy, I personally like seeing woman putting thier relationship status as single then those who just put nothing because they don't have a b/f. Are some of them just embarrassed they don't have a b/f that they just don't put it? Any comments or thoughts? tyvm.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't bother with it. I put 'interested in women' but nothing beyond that. IMO, there's nothing worse than putting 'looking for a relationship' closely followed by 'whatever I can get'. Both reek of desperation.
 

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...Why does this matter?

If you want a girl, go get her. Don't sit on your ass and wonder about her because of something she did or didn't put on her stupid internet profile.

And on the flipside? Girls that are interested in you will be interested in you, regardless of your "status".
 

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Ace of Flames said:
...Why does this matter?

If you want a girl, go get her. Don't sit on your ass and wonder about her because of something she did or didn't put on her stupid internet profile.

And on the flipside? Girls that are interested in you will be interested in you, regardless of your "status".
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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