"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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warrior1

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To the people who you facebook, whats your thoughts about people who just do not put their relationship status? I know that woman like to put in a relationship with so and so when they like it to be known to other people. The girls i know never put their relationship status if their single or put something girlish like engaged to ..."their so and so girlfriend" Most guys are more straightforward about their relatinship status on facebook but a few do not put it.

Someone says that if your single, you shouldn't put that because it makes the person who have the hots for you think even more of you because they do not know if you're involved or not. As a guy, I personally like seeing woman putting thier relationship status as single then those who just put nothing because they don't have a b/f. Are some of them just embarrassed they don't have a b/f that they just don't put it? Any comments or thoughts? tyvm.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't bother with it. I put 'interested in women' but nothing beyond that. IMO, there's nothing worse than putting 'looking for a relationship' closely followed by 'whatever I can get'. Both reek of desperation.
 

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...Why does this matter?

If you want a girl, go get her. Don't sit on your ass and wonder about her because of something she did or didn't put on her stupid internet profile.

And on the flipside? Girls that are interested in you will be interested in you, regardless of your "status".
 

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Ace of Flames said:
...Why does this matter?

If you want a girl, go get her. Don't sit on your ass and wonder about her because of something she did or didn't put on her stupid internet profile.

And on the flipside? Girls that are interested in you will be interested in you, regardless of your "status".
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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