"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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warrior1

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To the people who you facebook, whats your thoughts about people who just do not put their relationship status? I know that woman like to put in a relationship with so and so when they like it to be known to other people. The girls i know never put their relationship status if their single or put something girlish like engaged to ..."their so and so girlfriend" Most guys are more straightforward about their relatinship status on facebook but a few do not put it.

Someone says that if your single, you shouldn't put that because it makes the person who have the hots for you think even more of you because they do not know if you're involved or not. As a guy, I personally like seeing woman putting thier relationship status as single then those who just put nothing because they don't have a b/f. Are some of them just embarrassed they don't have a b/f that they just don't put it? Any comments or thoughts? tyvm.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't bother with it. I put 'interested in women' but nothing beyond that. IMO, there's nothing worse than putting 'looking for a relationship' closely followed by 'whatever I can get'. Both reek of desperation.
 

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...Why does this matter?

If you want a girl, go get her. Don't sit on your ass and wonder about her because of something she did or didn't put on her stupid internet profile.

And on the flipside? Girls that are interested in you will be interested in you, regardless of your "status".
 

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Ace of Flames said:
...Why does this matter?

If you want a girl, go get her. Don't sit on your ass and wonder about her because of something she did or didn't put on her stupid internet profile.

And on the flipside? Girls that are interested in you will be interested in you, regardless of your "status".
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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