"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Relationship question: freezing her out vs talking about it

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Fela Kuti

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Hi guys,

I've read so many times here that you guys recommend freezing gf out (a.k.a. giving cold shoulders) if she does something disrespectful. Now, from my experience, some girls tend to see it as sulking and that it's a childish behavior. I partly agree with them, especially if they don't know what their fault is. I mean, it's just silly, right? Some girls even counter by freezing out also so in the end, the problem is not resolved. So, does this strategy really work? Shouldn't we just state the problem and solve it together like adults?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ease

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What happened?

Talking won't solve it, but girls see through a cold shoulder too easily.
 
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Alex DeLarge

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Everytime I've given a girl the cold shoulder, it's because I don't want them around me anymore. Then they try to re-initiate contact where I just ignore them a few times, then they know something's up and become all paranoid saying things like "What did I do? I just want to talk with you". Then when they do this for a while just say something like "I don't know what you're talking about. I've just been really busy lately with work and other things going on sorry."

Really there's no point in letting a girl know what she did, because she'll think up every BS excuse under the sun to defend it most of the time. And you taking 5 minutes to listen to her spit out these excuses like a broken record player is not worth your time.
 
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