"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Relationship question: freezing her out vs talking about it

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Fela Kuti

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Hi guys,

I've read so many times here that you guys recommend freezing gf out (a.k.a. giving cold shoulders) if she does something disrespectful. Now, from my experience, some girls tend to see it as sulking and that it's a childish behavior. I partly agree with them, especially if they don't know what their fault is. I mean, it's just silly, right? Some girls even counter by freezing out also so in the end, the problem is not resolved. So, does this strategy really work? Shouldn't we just state the problem and solve it together like adults?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ease

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What happened?

Talking won't solve it, but girls see through a cold shoulder too easily.
 
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Alex DeLarge

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Everytime I've given a girl the cold shoulder, it's because I don't want them around me anymore. Then they try to re-initiate contact where I just ignore them a few times, then they know something's up and become all paranoid saying things like "What did I do? I just want to talk with you". Then when they do this for a while just say something like "I don't know what you're talking about. I've just been really busy lately with work and other things going on sorry."

Really there's no point in letting a girl know what she did, because she'll think up every BS excuse under the sun to defend it most of the time. And you taking 5 minutes to listen to her spit out these excuses like a broken record player is not worth your time.
 
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